Has anyone over shared personal details to a senior leader and then felt a little embarrassed about it?

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I definitely have. I’d say to try to just forgive yourself and move on from it. We all do it.

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Is telling your boss you’re an active tinder user over sharing? If yes.. then yes😂

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Yes all the time. You’re only human, please don’t beat yourself over it! Learn from my mistakes though, my manager followed me on insta in my first week of starting work. Never again!! Just weird!!

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They just found me! I’d followed some fellow colleagues (same level) on insta and next thing I knew I’d had a request from them. Felt too awkward not to accept

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