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You really don't need to find them. Same elements attract each other. You'll know if you meet someone having the same interest as you do. You just feel comfortable right away. Don't push yourself building relationships with other people because you will not find a genuine one.
I have met a lot of people in this industry that I have bonded with for a while but I don't think they really are MY people. But you can meet all kinds of black professionals and you can try your luck with attending industry-specific events.
Here's a tip I learned in college: Friends are transitory. You will have a different set of friends for every aspect of your life. Childhood, teen age, college, work. Learn to adapt, the sooner you do so the less likely you'll be sad about losing some friends along the way. Trust me.
Love this. It's tough to find friends as an adult, full stop.
As you find new interests, move to new places and so on, it only gets tougher because you're thinning out the things you can have in common with one person. Be open to being friends through the various seasons of life, and understand that it's unlikely to find many more all-purpose friends.
Embrace the people that are present for the time they are present.
Does your company not have an employee resource group you can join? That for me is the easiest way to befriend like minded people and people you share a relatively similar background and culture with. Join organizations if you can.
Recently saw a study that the people we are most with during our 20's and mid30's are our workmates. Get a good support system, but some people are luckier than others in this aspect but i dare say that choose your friends wisely.
I had an incredibly diverse group of work colleagues/friends at my first job...tbh, I've never had that experience again. Most of my workpalces have been pretty white and I always feel like a bit of a misfit
It's normal to struggle find people with the same interest as you. Considering you're still 22, you still have a lot of time to connect with people. Just be approachable and engage in small talks in your office.