How do you effectively network up when you already feel awkward in forced communications? I’m not afraid, but it feels weird to set up coffee chats when I’d so much rather meet leadership organically.

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I actually enjoy it. I like listen to people's stories, so I can always ask how did they get there. My issue wasn't really in starting a conversation, but rather keeping it alive. As I often feel that my experiences are "nothing" compared to others...

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I use those opportunities to setup coffee since I can deal with 1:1 much easier. Just be sure you have topics in mind so they have an idea if they’re trying to gauge what you’re looking for

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Is it totally weird to request another meeting after getting a job offer to make sure it's a right fit? 🤔

I've noticed that sometimes I still have lingering questions. ❔

I've been burnt out by toxic work environments, so I don't want to make another mistake. 🙄

How would you handle this logistics of this meeting? (Timing - after the offer but with time before you start? How to phrase the reason why?)

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