How does everyone keep up with things around the house like chores? My schedule has been 8am - 2am for the past weeks. My fiancé works normal hours. Is it fair for her to be pissed at me for not being able to help as much as usual? Typically I help out, but sometimes there aren’t enough hours in the day?? Maybe I’m wrong. How does everyone else manage?

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Pay for a cleaner bruh. Of course she's pissed off, she's not a housewife and she's at home cleaning your toilet while you're away building your career

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VP1, that’s was I was going to post 😂

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I pay for a cleaner and wash and fold . You order groceries vs shopping for them

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Hire someone to help her out ! The purpose of working hard and making money is to buy comfort for your self and your loved ones.

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Help her out too , she is not a cleaning lady

Were you upfront about setting her expectations for what your career entails?

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Since you are WFH you need to be more honest about your workload.
There’s no way you are working non-stop 18 hour days.
If you feel like you are then you need to learn time management/self care skills.
That said, you still likely are down close to zero energy.
Get a cleaner. She didn’t sign up to do everything just because you decided to work extreme hours that virtually no one can cope with.

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I agree with everyone here. Just pay for someone to clean. Keep the future wife happy and boost our economy. Win and win. Btw, you work hours are terrible. I am done by midnight.

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