How emotionally intense is private family law practice compared to public interest? I love certain aspects of family law- creative problem solving, how every case is different, being in a direct service role, etc. However, a significant amount of my work day in PI is taken up just listening to clients vent about their ex and how betrayed they feel which can be very draining. How different is private practice?

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That’s a lot of what private practice family law is too. You’re basically a lawyer and a therapist. It is emotional and you have to keep strict boundaries and mental separation between work and home to stay sane.

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I limited the amount of time I let them talk about their ex. That’s above my pay grade. Money issue? OSC for child support/maintenance. Custody? Draft the motion/petition. When I do the initial draft, then I call back for details related to the ex for the supporting affidavit. Better use of your time.

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