How often are people having sex? And is it in a relationship or without any attachment?

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only like 3 times a day and it's with myself

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3-4 times a week on average. Some weeks more, some weeks less. We mix things up and keep things interesting. Been married for 20+ years, and with her for 30. We met in college. Never had kids. We're both about 50 years old. Wouldn't trade it for anything.

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Once a week

For me it is on average about 2-3 per week. I am married.

3 times a day its been going great in my relationship

Not often enough 😅

3x a week. Single.

ONS or fwb?

Never. Dating hasn't been going great, and that's not by choice, but I made the decision to stop hooking up with no attachment and I'm sticking to it.

2-3 times a week. Married for six years

Everyday. And people do for attachment especially e prostitution they have sex for money ,so the money is attached to the sex she is having

So I use a diary app to track the most random things and when we have sex I log it. We are married 15 years this June 19 with 3 kids, 15, 14 and 10 and and are 36 and 37. For the month of May we have currently had sex 15 times. April was 14 times. I think it's pretty healthy or normal?

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