How to know whether you are ready for marriage or not ?
My parents recently started looking for matches for me and the whole process feels a little overwhelming to me.
I met a girl and after marriage she wants me to move to another city where I don't have friends but she has.
I've been mostly single all my life and wanted to explore a life a bit more and become mentally, financially well established.
What are the parameters one should consider before taking such decisions?

27, 3 YOE
CCTC-15

Anyone else stuck here without family? I'm in SF and my roommates are going home to their families tonight and i'm going to be alone, it's going to be a long 3 weeks..... 😭😭😭

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

I low key miss fridays in the office because I don’t know how to make new friends as a 26 year old

What’s your *wish-fulfillment fantasy* life like? Hot model wife, kids, a house in the suburbs and success in your career?

My dad who lives in Asia just announced that he had a medical issue. I’m starting to enter the age where I’m going to take care of him financially. It’s a $2,000 hospital bill which in the US is nothing compared to what it represents there (which he can’t afford). He’s going to be fine! Just wanted to share with this group as many of you can understand what it feels like to support your parents when they’re old, not the other way around. I feel so blessed I can help him. 🙏🏽

What resources would you recommend to find a full time nanny in Houston? Any specific websites, services, groups or places that have worked for you in the past?

How do you manage a long distance relationship? I got engaged 3 months ago and my fiancé and I live in different cities. I just can’t stop thinking about her and feel horrible there on.

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

When you think you have made a mistake in life, when you have regrets, be gentle with yourself. Remember that you have the power to make choices. I've learned a lot about this from my friend...

I am not sure I can continue to work in a system that refuses to let go of people who continue not to do their job. Kids deserve better.

Recommendations on an exceptional career coach who can help my husband? He works with his brother at a startup his brother founded (my husband is in-house counsel) but often finds himself belittled by his brother, cut out of conference calls and emails and generally feeling like he has no skills. He's an ivy league graduate and went to a great law school but for many reasons cannot leave this job right now. Looking for someone to help w/his confidence level and ways to approach his brother. TIA!

Does anyone feel a disconnect with friends who work a typical 9-5, or those who are non-entrepreneurial and/or never owned/run a business?

Do you guys ever feel like you're 'too Asian' in the workplace but 'not Asian enough' when it comes to family/friends? My morals are rooted in Asian traditions, but can't speak my native language well

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

HELP...New Term...New Kids...Day 3... 1 kids is on Remote Learning with no home internet...I need 10 days of unplugged activities...he is in 6th gr...TIA

What are you all reading other than maternity help books? Any book recommendations for after baby is born? Mainly around how to keep the baby safe from injuries and incidents.

Hello, i m looking into a 7 night cruise but travelling with 1 year old for first time. I want to know if anyone has travelled with an infant before and what you fed them in cruise ? Mostly, i am also worrier about the following: 1. Finding organic milk, 2. Heating food 3. Is it possible to take a small blender and use within cruise ship?

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

What do you all normally do in your downtime at work? I used to be in a high stress, high tempo office but moved to a better paying role with much less responsibility. I’m still adjusting to have all this free time on my hands and need something to keep me busy throughout the day.

Partners - absent the paycheck, do you enjoy your job? Regardless of yes/no, did you enjoy the path to getting there? If you didn't, what convinced you to keep going at it?

Hi fishes
A known of mine with 8 years of experience in a leading US Bank industry got an offer from

EXL as AVP/Engagement manager at credit for fintech clients (42+5 LPA)

and

Accenture strategy as Manager in operations for banking (40+3 LPA)

Which one should he go for?
Any suggestions?

Hi Guys , can somebody please let me know what is this Core values round in Sapient

Is it safe to join CISCO? I have heard the layoffs happens there yearly.

Thoughts on airline stocks? Good time to get in?

I think BCC is the next coin coming to Coinbase

What if Elon Musk replaces Rajesh Gopinathan as the CEO of TCS?
All the useless managers will be fired?

Anyone interested in PCS work? Please DM!

Started at my first agency 3 mo. ago. I’m doing great work on exciting clients, but I often feel uninspired and drained. Is it growing pains or is this the wrong industry for me? How will I know?

I would like to learn more about development and real estate. Can anyone recommend any books or courses that you think are informative. Eventually I would like to own a few apartment buildings, but I know there is a lot I need to learn 1st. Any advice appreciated. 

How is job security, work life balance & work culture with CapGemini Invent?

A lot of people here seem to glamorize MANGA positions - good pay, and good WLB. There has to be a catch, right?

Hi,
I'm an immediate joiner. I have 3+ yrs experience in AWS, python, docker technologies. Please let me know if there are any open positions or any other leads for AWS Developer. (I haven't been getting any calls from naukri and other job portals.)

Hi fishes,
During the BGV will third party personnel visit your house? I plan on going on a trip before my joining date. Also if the bgv is completed early will the doj also change to an earlier date

Most cringeworthy pickup lines you’ve seen on dating apps?
I’ll start: “Are you my appendix cuz I want to take you out”

I am feeling like going for Pee again and again... Is it sign of Sugar...

Need your guidance. I am trying to learn driving. Joined a driving school and practised on their vehicle for 10 days and on my vehicle for 10 days. However, still I don't have the confidence to drive. What should I do to start driving confidently

Men - boxers, briefs or trunks?

Anyone has used any Ayurbedic med or nuska to increase the s## stamina or performance ... Between 36 Married man here

Id like everyone to drop a few tips on how should they be a high valued man.

Thanks!

Bhailog jate hue balo ko kaise roka jaye

Has anyone tried Polo Tshirts from Nautica?

Reviews?

Offtopic:

Took a Tommy Hilfiger watch few years ago and wanted to get it repaired. How do I get it done?

Don't remember the outlet I took it from

What's the amount you generally spend while buying office clothes?

Let's make this group better. Suggestions?

Thinking to drop a few YT videos on fashion, clothing, grooming etc

Which is the good budget friendly perfume??

I have premium one from Boss Hugo... I kept it for special occasions 😜😜

Bhai log. T20 Cricket Worldcup start hone wala hai. Thoughts? Are you guys excited? Kya lagta hai India ke chances ke baare mei?

Hello bros,
Need one suggestion. My close friend is gng to marry soon. So I need some suggestions to what I should give as a gift. Until now I gave gift with group. This time I'm giving by myself.
I can't afford expensive things.
Thanks in advance!!

This platform has serious bug... Something fishy in it... Someday they may released buggy app and reveal our identity...

Guys need your suggestion here.

Please help me with my decision.

I am 32 divorced and I have decided to not marry again also i don't have any other other responsibilities /loans etc.

Currently earning 18 lpa and I am planning to buy a car which is worth 16 lakhs. Should I go ahead or should l lower my budget as per my current salary package

Has anyone tried PRP treatment for hair loss?
I don't have male pattern baldness, but patchy hair loss and doctors are saying two session of prp would be enough.

Is it good? Whether it restored your hairs?

Relaxed fit cargos or slim fit?

Wearing for the first time.
Do not want to look Chapri AF

Hi Friends,
Me and my girlfriend both live in the same city, working from home, living with our respective families.

Before covid and wfh, we were in gurgaon and we used to go to each other's places to have some "private time"

It looks like a distant luxury now.
Any ideas of what can be done? Anyone facing a similar issue who got any resolution?