I am trying to get rid of the feelings and thoughts about my crush who doesn't like me.
The only problem is I don't have any work to do, I live with parents only, so no one to really talk to, I spend most of my time alone. I don't have any friends in the city. So, 24*7 I'm thinking about her. I've lost all motivation to study or upskill at the moment.
How should I keep myself busy all day so that I don't even get time to think about her? What to do?

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You need to start working on your hobbies. On your self growth. Thats how you can improve upon yourself. When you become a better person physically and mentally , you become better and happier

This is a cliched advice but it works always

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Get married 😁

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What's your age buddy?

Okay so a practical advice, get married in an AM setting

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