I don’t know if I can do this job. I’m on some insane engagements for the next few months, and I don’t know how I’m supposed to balance the crazy hours and my personal life/relationship. I’m really...

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Sometimes things look daunting when you holistically look at all the work you need to do. Rather take it one day at a time. Look at what you can do to make time for your personal life. For example start your day earlier/ cut your lunch shorter, be efficient when you're working, have a quick dinner. This way u get to go home earlier. Have a no work from home policy. Communicate unreasonable deadlines if you're doing your best but can't keep up. The firm needs to reassign work if needed. If all else fails then quit. Not worth sacrificing your own physical and mental health. You have the power to take control of your own life. Always remember that!

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...about to have a panic attack and just need some help and guidance

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What are you more worried about - crazy hours or your personal life? Seems like there is a problem you have to figure out, but one at the time.
First of all, this is only a job🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t panic beforehand.
Second of all, what is that that you are so worried about your relationship? Ask for support form your significant other

You should talk to someone now to get projects taken off.

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