I feel bad for responding to a message that someone sent me online telling me how they think my boyfriend is on Plenty of fish & is talking to someone else. It got to the point where I said he was making me turned on & everything. I did notice how my bf seemed like he was getting pretty distant from me & his behavior seemed off. However, i researched this man & found out hes older than what he said!! He is 60 NOT 40 something!! feel so stupid. Why fool me & deceive me like that?! Pathetic smh.

29M single looking to meet some new people and grab some drinks !

A question to all the men in here, what are your age criteria for dating/serious relationships? Is it true that 30+ females have it much harder than females in their 20ties?

any single asian men in here interested to drink

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

After everyone gets vaccinated, thinking of starting a desi singles meet up. Details will be shared later. Who’s in?

Hello. Looking to date again….anyone have idea of best app for late 40s…

Any lady fishes up?

Perspective: monogamy is anti-human nature; in this era where each parent could raise a kid independently, marriage tends to be a shackle on many aspects of life. We live once, why does society expect us to live with 1 person for 60+ years? No wonder divorce rates are through the roof!

35 Female NYC, 🥳

If you could go back and start over would you still choose this path? Or would you choose a different career and/or a different time to have children? I accidentally became a working parent in law so while I love my job and my children I don't think I would have planned it quite like this.

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

Any F in Minnesota?

Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

It’s my birthday in a few minutes. 2021 has been a terrible year for me. My marriage ended. It wasn’t a bad end though. We are still close, just not romantic partners anymore. The very first dog I ever had died and I couldn’t go see her because of the quarantine. I didn’t get a promotion that I more than deserved. I don’t think I get paid well. Most of my friends moved out of the city and I’m having to meet new people at 32. I love my job but it’s incredibly stressful. I’m terribly lonely.

I hate it when people try to bond with me over trauma when their trauma is that they fight a lot with their spouse or they didn’t get the promotion they wanted. How is that staring death in the face??

Curious what % of partners/MDs have spouses who also work. And regardless of non/working spouse, what do you do to feel a work/family balance?

Is everyone on a date, I’m still working 🥹

My dad who lives in Asia just announced that he had a medical issue. I’m starting to enter the age where I’m going to take care of him financially. It’s a $2,000 hospital bill which in the US is nothing compared to what it represents there (which he can’t afford). He’s going to be fine! Just wanted to share with this group as many of you can understand what it feels like to support your parents when they’re old, not the other way around. I feel so blessed I can help him. 🙏🏽

Hey

Male here,

Anyone up for weekend catchup and drive ...female preferred ;)

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Bloomberg Law or Practical Law if you had a choice?

Help me to get a job as a 3D Artist

Hey! Please can I get suggestion for some GMAT online study material/ online tutors? Too many options out there , but hard to guess what’s good!

Anyone remember that Pat The Baker ad from about 10 years ago with the Polish lad singing "Now Pet is on his veyyyy!"?

I miss music. Like actual bands with instruments and vocal ability. Feels like the music industry is so hollowed out that multi-member instrumental bands like Fleetwood Mac, The Beatles, and even Metallica are no longer able to take root.

There are a few talented individual singers (Adele) a lot of awful mumble rappers, but no actual bands that will stand the test of time. Before I get called a Boomer, the problems with the music industry for new artists are well documented.

Is it true that UAE public entities are the best among ME public sector clients? If yes, why?

Seeking advice on pursuing opportunities in healthcare / life sciences strategy - looking for managing director / VP level in the ME region. Interested in consulting or industry. I have 19 years consulting + industry combined experience in pharma and US hospitals. Thank you 🙏

Does anyone use Google Classroom for ECSE ? I was supposed to have it up and running by Thursday. Luckily, all of my kiddos came. I didn’t take the workshop this summer and the person that gave a brief overview last week talked so fast that I couldn’t understand what was being said.

6 years in public accounting, manager 2. Is a financial reporting manager at a $2billlion SEC company a good position to transition into? Your thoughts pls.

“Bad news, we’ve had to eliminate the position that we were supposed to finalize your promotion to. Good news, your current position is still available and the prestige of your current role is now increased”
Not the money, not the title, bonus or anything, but oh the prestige.

Founded a Nonprofit to help coach veterans in transition and exiting first responders and their families while focusing on changing the stigma of mental health conversation.

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Team Lead Operations

Is it normal to sleep only in your vest and briefs?

What kind of ratings are you supposed to give your counselee in LEAD feedback? Should be give one less than gold standard to everyone

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

Feeling a deep void in close human connection after letting go a relationship that was lacking a future (I was interested in something more, he was unsure). Can’t stop thinking of reaching out and need strength to just stay with the loneliness and have hope for the better times. Would appreciate support. It’s been 2 weeks but I feel bouts of extreme sadness and desire to have someone to share my life and days with.

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Who here is willing to turn on networking for the next 2 hours?? People want to see their options in this bowl! You can then quietly go back into the shadows.

Any F in Minnesota?

Any houston folks here?

Is this an active bowl..Or have the 30s fishes turned 40s already?

Rewatching Brokeback Mountain, which came out 15 years ago (hard to believe that). Anyway, it's still an outstanding, devastating film (and love story) that I think if had been released 10 years later would have easily won best picture and best actor for Heath Ledger.

Any female fish in Downtown SFO, want to grab a drink and bite? 30M here

Just joined. 37 M 🐠. 6ft Latino in Austin. Born and raised in the Bay Area. 👋🏼

35 F🐟, Boston, 🙋

Anyone in SF/ San Jose? f25

Early 30s, Female, Texas. Indian Ethnicity. HMU!

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

30M based in nyc. Any F ready for casual dating? Happy to DM if interested.

Not in my 30s or 40s but looking to network with people in industry. I am a fun person so you will not get bored :)

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.