I feel like im at my breaking point with neediness of clients this week. What is a nice way of saying don’t bug me with little things call my assistant or your failure to act is not my emergency?

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Do you bill? If so, you can say something along the lines of “I’m available to you, but please remember that i have to bill you every time we speak. I don’t want you to spend more than what’s necessary, so please try to limit your calls/texts for urgent situations.” Something where you’re telling them to back off, but wording it in a way where you’re doing them a favor by telling them they have to back off.

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