I got arrested six years ago for an uneventful DUI. I abstained for a while but moderated after always taking an Uber home. I haven't risked another DUI but the risks I have been taking while drinking shocked me. I'm 5 days sober now and feel like such an idiot. At least I proved that I can't moderate without imploding my life but ugh. So dumb.

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You're not dumb. You have an allergy like the rest of us. I tried to moderate and abstain on my own for ten years. Eventually gave up and realized I couldn't do it alone. AA has not only helped me stopped drinking but how to find pleasure in my life such that drinking doesn't even sound like fun. Feel free to ask questions or DM. Stay strong! One day at a time.

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