I was working 90 hours a week for a few months. Spouse refused to pick up the slack so I hired a cleaning lady. Now almost a year later it eased up and I still have her is that bad ?

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If your time is more important to you then saving the money, it’s definitely not bad.

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From previous similar posts, many many people on here having cleaning people.

I have Groupon and Task Rabbit. No one regular because that feels weird. I call on them once every 2-3 months to clean like I’m moving out, and do my own maintenance in between. Haven’t done it since the start of the pandemic, though, because letting a stranger in to clean doesn’t feel smart.

Don’t feel guilty for using money to gain back a priceless commodity. It’s one of the best uses of money. If you have the money, why not? I hired a cleaning service to clean my one-bedroom apartment in law school and will never feel bad about that. I also had a meal service, and it was a good use of money.

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