I work in tech for 6 years now live in HCOL. No family money and may have to help take care of my immigrant parents but maybe not really depends. I have no loans bc my parents sacrificed everything. My boyfriend has a good job in tech (TC $250K) w no loans but also will have no family money.
We do not have expensive tastes but have a lot of friends and live in NYC so lots of money spent on Ubers, alcohol, gifts, weddings, and I donate a lot.
I really want to become a therapist. Is it possible?

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Do a BSW/MSW combined degree (5 years). When you are ready to get out of city. Move to NJ buy a house with an in law suite. Use it as your office or AirBnB it until parents have needs.

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I absolutely think it's possible. If he makes $250k and therapist can make anywhere from $75k to 100k so you both should be fine assuming you're living together

No loans on either side and your bf makes $250k? You should be more than fine to go back to school. Are you dead set on living in NYC forever though? Because that's the only part of this puzzle (aside from all the going out) that might not be sustainable. I think as you get older, you are also less inclined to go out as much so you might have to be smart with your budgeting for entertainment.

On a salary basis? Yes, especially if you work in a speciality that could pay more or work for a private school even as an on campus therapist

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