If someone on an anonymous forum asked for a zoom meeting to give career advice, and move 30 minutes out at last minute and don’t show up after 5 mins, do I even want to reply to their reschedule attempt?

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Wtf, no. Find someone else that really cares

Just to clarify - I’m helping them out coz they reach out for advice.

Nope.

Hell no. This is a rare instance where ghosting is acceptable.

(Sh)it happens. Ask for the reason and then make your decision. They might have a genuine reason. Put yourself in their shoes.

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