I’m afraid to start applying or looking for a new job (I like my current one but it’s not 100% on par with what I’d like to do). I’m in a serious relationship and my partner is excelling greatly in his career, so I must consider this if I apply to jobs outside of our city (really likely because we hate the city we are in and there are more opportunities elsewhere). If I applied it would most certainly be in other cities. How do you manage your career while also considering your partners?

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Interviewing can be a long process (plus start times are often flexible), so in all likelihood your partner will have plenty of notice. It sounds like your partner is already open to moving, so why not talk about whether there are any cities that are a definite “no”, and then start applying for ones in cities where you both are open to moving? There’s no reason not to start applying now, assuming your partner truly is ok with moving.

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This is exactly what we did (although my partner works remotely even pre covid). We loved chicago but agreed I would focus on 2 markets that were nearer to family. We moved in late September and are very happy we did.

So many jobs are remote for at least another 6 months if not longer. Apply and see what happens. If you did get a job that would eventually require a move your SO would have months to find something else and it sounds like they would like to move as well. Just make sure you are both on the same page about new cities you’d like to move to.

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I don’t want to apply to a job that seems cool and on par with what I’d like to do and get an offer then turn it down based on my circumstances. Has anyone ever dealt with this?

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