I’m global services with United and got upgraded on a transatlantic flight. Is it acceptable for me to let my wife and 15-mo old daughter (in lap) take the upgrade? Asking for etiquette reasons. Thx!

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Absolutely! Ask your gate agent or call the airlines! My dad did it all the time

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Yeah, for sure. I see it happen all the time! Just ask your wife to send some alcohol to the back 😉

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FWIW, your 15 month-old is a toddler, not an infant. Far more importantly, good luck on flight

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Might be worth giving your wife the option of staying in coach but without baby as well. That could be more desirable sometimes!

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I did that once with my two infants. The flight was miserable but my wife was appreciative.

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For sure

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I always offer to swap the upgrade with my wife. I figure that I’m traveling all the time and get a fair amount of upgrades, so why not spread the wealth a bit. She was real appreciative on our way back from our he Caribbean when I had our 3 & 8 year olds in coach and she got to actually relax to end our trip.

Scored some nice “spouse points” on that one

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Thanks everyone...very helpful indeed. My daughter wouldn’t leave my wife for over an hour and vice-versa. So having the infant with me in coach isn’t an option I would still have a 4 yo to deal with in coach. I was just worried about the perception of having an infant in business class in an upgraded seat.

If infant is small enough, you can reserve a bassinet. They have them in coach and biz

GS here. I usually call the desk and find what it would take to upgrade them with me and sometimes they make it happen

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