I’m so sad. I’m 5 weeks, 4 days into my first pregnancy and started bleeding yesterday morning. Went to my OBGYN and said it’s very possible this is a miscarriage, however, my cervix was still closed at the time. I’m 29 and have no family history of miscarriages or abnormalities. I’m taking my 2nd blood test tomorrow to see if my HCG levels are falling (bad sign) since my first test. I stopped bleeding this afternoon so lasted ~24 hours... I’m so confused and sad and emotionally drained. 😓

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Hope for the best, and if not, I’m so sorry. My wife had a miscarriage a few months ago at 8 weeks. Extremely heartbreaking, but we also learned a ton through the process. Especially how hard it is to get pregnant, and how common miscarriages are. Stay strong, OP.

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If you stopped bleeding that might be a good sign. When I had my miscarriage around the same time, the bleeding got really heavy within a few hours after it started and didn’t go away for more than two weeks. Hoping for a good outcome tomorrow.

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You might just have a subchorionic hemorrhage. Pretty common in the first trimester. Take it easy until you know more. Bleeding is a lot more common than people make you think. Good luck!

I had bleeding at 6 weeks with this pregnancy and pretty severe cramping too. It lasted a week and a half and turned out to be a hematoma. Someone mentioned it above. It completely resolved by 10 weeks but I was a basket case for a while. Was really convinced it was another miscarriage.

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