I’ve been in accounting 5+ years, mostly AP/AR/payroll. I’m a veteran, mom of 4, and have ADHD. I had a Big 4 internship I loved—it kept my brain engaged—but now I’m in a stable 9–5 where I’m not learning or growing. I want to go back to Big 4 but I’m scared I’ll fail my kids or burn out. Has anyone made the leap with a family and felt it was worth it? I’m stuck between comfort and growth.

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My kids were 8 when I started. I don’t know that I would have been as successful if they had been a lot younger. I was away from them a lot, and during busy season would only see them when I took them to school in the morning.

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And mom of 4 is ALOT by itself… tough decision for sure

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Chances are high you burn out and fail your kids. I have 2 kids six years in and it’s ALOT even though my wife stays at home.

I’ve worked this whole weekend and was only around for dinner twice this whole weekend.

I would suggest going to a bigger company for a raise - stay out of PA. Your fam is too valuable.

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Public accounting is one of the most flexible careers there are. I started when my oldest was 10 months and had 2 more kids. It was really hard, but so valuable to my career and my husband was supportive. I stayed almost 7 years before I started my own company. If you can get started and wow them (don't burn out but do really good work) they'll more than likely let you go on a reduced schedule if that's what you need.

I’m a mom of 5 and am leaving Big 4. Even the PPMDs are recommending smaller firms because the money and growth is significantly better. PE firms are eating them up. Big 4 is not doing well, honestly.

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