Law school didn't prepare me for the reality of how my ADHD brain functions on the job. Anyone else feel blindsided?

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Absolutely. Had so much control over my schedule in school, now I’m like a chicken with my head cut off.

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Yes

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It’s not just ND’s. Law school doesn’t prepare anyone for practicing.

Just play to your strengths, don’t try to do what works for NT’s.

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