My 4 year old in private Pre-K told me the boy who sits next to her said mean things to her (You don’t look good etc.) How do I report this? Talk to teacher or school admin or something else?

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Tell her to kick the kid in the face.

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Tell the kid to tell this to her teacher

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It’s a teaching moment too - people throughout life won’t always say nice things to you. But yes worth talking to the teacher if it’s a trend.

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The mean stuff starts way earlier than I realized. Especially comments on my daughter’s appearance. 🤬 We told her first say something (“that is rude.”, “stop commenting on my appearance.”, etc). And if they do it again or try to clap back, tell an adult.

With physical aggression, we practiced squaring up and saying “stop touching me” and worked on her saying it with her whole chest without sounding like whining (adults can sometimes tune it out). But the role play/practice helped her feel more confident.

But also- talk to the teacher.

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Talk to the class teacher.

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Tell the teacher

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Would def talk to the teacher and make sure the boy’s parents knew

Really hard situation. Agree with most of the above, our kids for sure need coaching on self advocacy (so I love the concept of coaching kid on telling the boy to stop and then bring it up with the teacher) bringing up to teacher in parrell would be good. Not sure about other parent reach out, I am not good at that and not sure it’s the right call anyways

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