My MIL celebrates chath . I come from family where my mom don’t do chath. I have rarely went home during chath. Nor do I have any interest in Chath Puja . I am almost 34+ . Married recently. I went for first chath at my mother in law place. This year it’s my second chath. I don’t know why she celebrates chath. I heard that chath is to be passed to next generation . But I have literally no interest in it . I stay in one of the IT city with husband away from parents . I don’t know what to do !!

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Honor ur MIL for upholding the traditional festivities. She could've been least interested just like u to carry out chhath puja rituals when she was newly married. But there's a good reason why chhath must be passed on to the next generations and she knows it.
I'd suggest u never to become a weak link that failed to pass over such traditional practices of our festivities.

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