Of the topic- I'm in a relationship for 6 years. She is 4 years elder than me. Currently I'm 29 & She is 33.We have good understandings,love, respect for each other. We are planning to marry next year.

If we plan a baby after 2-3 years, will there be any complications? As she would be 35+(Married people/women can answer)

Marrying someone 4 years elder is not a problem I guess.

My personal website (created on squarespace) is laughably out of date - I just can’t seem to find the time to update it given 24/7 job and young child. Any digital ADs up for a quick gig? Compensation is negotiable - but generous. DM me if interested!

2 friends from college just stayed up with me for 4 hours to make last minute edits to my horrid Wharton essays. Admit or ding I’m grateful to have friends like this in my life.

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

What is a good website to use to create a whole custom baby site?

I’ve been in a relationship now for two years. We are living together. We talk about the future etc. I could easily see myself marrying her. However, I have an issue… cont

My husband and I are thinking about taking a 6 month career break to travel. Career suicide or worth the risk? For context, I’m a 4th year big law associate (30 years old and no kids).

How long was your oldest relationship and why did it end? Was it an abrupt stop or did the sense of doom grow over time?

Guys, have you gone through some traumatic experiences, or realized somethings that unnecessarily cause you to be too aware instead of living your best life? If so, how were you able to reconnect...

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Brand new baby lawyer dumb question - I am tasked with drafting response to request to produce. How long should this take? And follow up… how do I bill this?

My wife has two offer ,already confused and don't want to apply for any other opening now.

TCS- 20LPA ( 15.8 Fixed+ 80k retention bonus after each successful year of completion+ 3.4 L monthly and quarter variable pay)

IBM- 20.35 LPA (Total fixed) and 50 k joining bonus.

Yoe- 7.3 years. Technology- IICS.informatica power center.
Which one to join considering-
1. Career growth
2. WLB
3. Maternity leave benefits
4. Future annual hikes

Please suggest

FIRE newbie here. Is it possible to reach FIRE with a special needs kid? Has someone done it? Are there any alternatives to fund therapies beside insurance?

Would anyone be interested in participating in a research study? The only requirements are to be a school district employee and have a child in the district with special needs. Please help!!!

Doge in the top 30! That, and the fact that my 70 yr old mother in law bought some of everything on coinbase should signal the beginning of the end.

I'm a product engineer and it's hard to turn off work mode at the end of the day, I think of how products *should* be packaged when I'm shopping and can't understand why my wife doesn't care 🤷

Hi All, I am 11 yoe, working at a medium sized product company and I got an offer from Thoughtworks (50% hike) for a Lead Consultant role in data engineer profile.

Being a mother, I have anxiety and nervousness about joining a service based company bcoz of doubts below.
1. Job security, considering the upcoming recession is it safe to join TW at this time?
2. How good is WLB at TW for a Lead Consultant? Approx working hours on a daily basis?
3. How flexible is TW for WFH?

Please suggest

I’m 6 months pregnant and scheduled a 30 minute meeting to chat with my HR rep to talk about our parental leave benefits (specifically how to navigate taking additional, unpaid time)…. She declined the meeting and directed me to review the policy documentation online and email her with any specific questions I have. Is that normal? Feeling a bit unsupported but also not trying to overreact

Chem classroom social media. Do you use it? I have recently started and had a lot of success this year in terms of student and parent engagement. Please feel free to follow @johnstonchemistry on IG

Anybody taken adhd meds while pregnant? Or quit because you were pregnant? How did work go?

Is bfs account Contract get extended or they simply release and we get bach to parent (cts), for another project is complete bgv happening or they just handle from their side?

Do partners know each other’s compensation? I see partners selling engagements for vastly different numbers b/w shorter ‘interesting’ strategy work and longer ‘boring’ transformations. Thoughts?

Yoe-11.5
Current CTC -17.8
I have got an offer of 24.5 and designation AVP. I got what I asked.

Did I asked less?? Can I re-negotiate the offer? I don't have any other offer right now.

I am a technology trainer for MERN and MEAN stack. My current CTC is 9Lac, should i consider switching.
Am I underpaid or is the CTC justified.? I have 6YOE

Can you share first year salary for midsize firms? I'm in NJ, but curious to hear other markets. Also billable targets? Thanks!

How does LinkedIn rank among the tech exit opps? Is it a step above or below Amazon? Compared to other FANG?

Folks who exited to Google - how long after your final round did you have you wait before getting the decision? How was the decision communicated? Would love to also hear if you were confident you’d get the offer because you crushed it, or if you felt you had a mixed interview but still eventually got the offer.

401(k) gurus - If I switched jobs in 2020, does the $19.5k pretax 401(k) contribution limit apply to each plan or is it across plans? Also, does it matter if my spouse (joint filing) is self employed and bootstrapping and is not enrolled in a 401(k) plan?

Hi Guys,

Can I get some refferal for Cloud Automation fields : VCenter, Powershell, Azure...
Application Development : .net , C#, javascript, html, css...

Currently I am on notice period. With total experience of 3 years 10 months.

Also please give some idea of what CTC should I expect....

Any fishies in MPLS and willing to share AE salary expectations?

Looking for jobs internship.

Hello all, I work full time as an RN at the VA. I’ve been looking for a side hustle to do on my own time. I would love to review cases such as prior authorization, records for 2nd opinions, etc. The positions that I come across generally require a commitment of at least 24 hrs which is not feasible. Anyone know of any opportunities?

Anyone working in Adani Digital Labs?
What should be the ideal package for Sitecore Sr. Architect/Architect in Adani Digital Labs?

Thanks in Advance

I recently became an Anaplan Certified Level 1 Model Builder and have been applying to a lot of roles. Does anyone have any recommendation on companies to apply to and a range that is suitable with that certification? So far I have applied to the the big four consulting firms and Fintech companies.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

I have joined company in Jan 2021 but till May it was internship. From june 2021 it was fulltime. I graduated in 2020. So while switching i should say my YOE as 1.5or 1.

Any tips for how to handle uncomfortable advances or behavior from clients around junior female staff? I’m a new (male) manager who has both heard of and observed it from one client

Mindtree or Citiustech which is good in terms of wlb and onsite opportunities ?

Infogain 19lpa
Start up 16 lpa
Which one to choose?
Yoe :4
Tech stack : java spring boot microservices
If joined in start up tech stack will change to java airflow python.
I have only two days left.
Please suggest me.

How can I get a good package in company
I have 1 year's of experience in PHP development and 1 codeigniter frame work development
Please help me

hi folks.. what level does a Principal Consultant in Infosys Consulting map to. Is it a director level role , if mapped to an equivalent delivery role?

Can cognizant give 39 LPA for 7 yrs experience developer?

Hello Fishes!

Anyone aware of Adobe interview process for Machine Learning Engineer? Literally any info that may help is appreciated. Couldn't find anything elsewhere.

TIA :)

Hi I'm afraid to take up jobs that require to put a lot of efforts and responsibility. For a context, I'm a 15 yoe developer and I'm still working as lead engineer in my current company . My classmates are product owners , vp s, senior managers etc now. I'm technically not that bad, but am afraid of fulfilling the responsibilities which come along with the role. Anybody having the same dilemma when looking for next job switch? How to get around?

What is the separation steps in IBM.just got an email do I need to submit income tax proofs now, 1.5l still not done for this fiscal year. I am confused no hr manager does not know anything.

Hi I need 11 likes to unlock the DM.
Please help 🙏🙏

Anyone knows what Lowe's India is like for a Software Engineer?

@Capgemini

I have applied for one position in Capgemini and in that application they mentioned fit for another position. What does that mean?

I also received a assessment link from Capgemini

Is anyFish aware of the company Gap Inc, in Hyderabad? They are the USA based apparels manufacturers. I am in the last stages of negotiations and want to know the following:
1. How much salary, joining bonus etc. can be asked for manager designation?
2. How is the WLB and org culture?
3. Yearly hike/ bonus payout ratio?

Any information is good information, pls help, much appreciated!