Recently had to take mental health leave due to terrible manager expecting me to work overtime, blaming me for her mistakes, gaslighting me by offering to help and then not helping and sending me aggressive emails that I’m not communicating/perf. I work in sales and mind you our team has been understaffed for about a year now so I have been taking almost more than double my workload. Her micromanaging style has got the first time ever caused me to have stress, anxiety, and severe panic attacks.

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I have been consistently hitting quota for my entire tenure at the company… so she can’t say anything there but rather is making up her own goals that are not aligned with driving closed won deals. With these misaligned goals I will not hit quota this quarter. I am extremely frustrated that she is impacting my paycheck and ability to be promoted. I have only been working with her for about 8 months and it’s been unbearable

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Would love to hear from anyone that might have been through something similar

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Yes. I went through a regime change. The new management thought they had a mandate to make employees lives miserable. I fought back and beat them. Would I suggest you do that? No, it was stressful as hell for about a year. It saved my job for 18 months.
If you’re getting that kind of friction, look for another job internally and externally.

Was there a change in management?

I just started therapy

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Been there, hoping that it is helping you. Btw didn't mean to do that emoji, they really need care emojis on here.

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