So I (male) wore a short sleeve polo shirt to work one day last week. Today I get a call from HR that a female coworker reported me and was really distressed bc she could see my nipples through my shirt.... continued

Need a suggestion for a secret Santa gift for a female Chinese coworker. We don't work together, so your guess is as good as mine.

How do you deal with a Midlevel who tells the partner you’ll cover for them, but gives you less than 24 hours notice they’ll be gone without asking if you can cover? I helped out back on July on a deal with they were on vacation, and now every vacation since they keep adding me back on without keeping me appraised of the deal in the interim

I have accepted an offer for the role of Director of Data Science & Analytics and I'll be working with old colleagues. I am very excited. I haven't given notice yet because I am waiting for the background check to complete, but my boss just asked me about traveling to a meeting in November. I start at the new job Oct 25. I'm really struggling for how to respond. If I were not leaving it is absolutely a meeting I should be at. I don't want to respond with a lie. Any dvice on how to respond?

At what point do you walk away when bosses or team values do not align with your personal values? Boss told me I’m too soft and I should be prepared to burn bridges if it’s a good outcome for company.

Any cologne recommendations for the office? I was told I need to wear something more subtle.

Hello friends. Need your advice. I have an Indian director on my team who is great in every way but he constantly skips his articles in spoken English. When he writes they are there. For example…

I live in downtown Seattle and a client just closed an email to me with “Hope you’re having a great weekend!” Um, what?

How do you professionally address a noticeable lack of diversity on your team? More than 85% of my team is white or white passing, and of the remaining individuals none are Black, Indigenous, or AAPI.

My coworker always takes a super long lunch. How does he have the time to get anything done?

How do you handle rude clinicians in the workplace? I always have an attending talking down to me.

I’m dealing with a difficult management situation and don’t know what to do, how would you report someone when nobody really cares what’s going on or is automatically going to side with the other person?

I’ve been at a job a year and have what I would call a very toxic manager. When I first started they were very nasty to me making comments about my appearance, my character and other inappropriate and mean things. I let them know how this made me feel and they stopped however I continue to notice how manipulative and condescending they are. My mental health is at a low. We are about to be at our busy season but I want to leave so bad. Should I wait until after the busy season or leave asap?

My company hosts happy hours but I don't drink. Is it rude to just skip them?

I am seriously worried. I am doing my co-op and my supervisor is not giving me an easy time. I am trying to do my best even with very little direction and this supervisor constantly harassing my about things like her not being able to use google meet or to remember passwords. I feel bullied and very anxious. I am afraid she can jeopardize my visa with a bad evaluation. I have been working at midnight, on Sunday mornings but I am human, I make mistakes, she just blames me instead of teaching.

My client has a very casual dress code. Any recommendations for a casual blue blazer?

Happy Halloween! Who says Financial Professionals are not creative? Share what you dressed up as for work today?

“At dinner John (client) said I have nice legs, grabbed my thigh, put his arm around me & invited me to his hotel. Seems inappropriate.” Boss: “Well we won’t be taking him to dinner again this year”🤯

I keep fighting with the product managers on my team, who keep assigning me new features to build without checking first if I had the bandwidth for it. How do I communicate this politely?

Have a really good relationship with current company, but got an amazing offer and very likely gonna leave (signed the offer, waiting for all the background checks to come back). How do you tell your boss you are leaving the company (if boss is not a dick lol) and not ruin relationship?

Curiosity question - I’m a naturally very chatty senior and I’ve noticed that the staff 1s who are starting remotely and living at their parents’ home (which makes a ton of sense with the remote working) that I’ve been working with seem to want to chat about both semi related work stuff and non work stuff a fair amount. If you’re a staff living at home, do you enjoy having seniors who will chat with you about random things or would you rather just get your work done and log off?

Urgent Help!

I am leaving JP because of toxic culture in my team. I have an interview. It's obvious interviewer will ask why are you leaving JP after 1 year of working. What should be my answer?

hey any accounting expert in SAP FI AA module here? can somebody tell me what is the difference between Net book value and current replacement value?

my end objective is to obtain a KPI which measures the current value of an asset in a manufacturing firm and this should include depreciation value.

from all over internet i see NBV is more suitable. but confused in a document mentioned as current replacement value.

Brand new startup, how do we think about social media?

We tried paid ads and it’s expensive so we want to acquire users through content marketing. It’s a product that helps people discover gift ideas - and it’s a web app.

What’s a good way of creating a social media strategy for it? Or is social media content marketing a good idea at all for early startups?

What are other ways to acquire early stage users?

Any firms cut salaries, bonuses, or staff lately? I feel like it’s coming..

Any remote, part time jobs in healthcare with a BS? Already have a full time, just need some extra cha Ching

Will get COVID vaccine today. That means party is an option at b school?

Working on some law firm applications tonight and it sucks that I know that I am so capable and have a strong work ethic but firms can’t see beyond grades or the fact that I didn’t go to a t14 law school or prestigious undergrad. I’ve worked twice as hard and feel like I’ve barely even gotten half as much. It’s discouraging sometimes especially because I worked so hard with pretty much no guidance (first gen, poc, low-income) to get into college and do well and then get into a t30 law school

Struggling with chronic headaches and jaw tension. Any recommendations for specialists in Toronto?
Also curious if anyone has tried botox for those as I’ve heard of it but cautious..

Any contract specialists with experience with rebates looking for a fully remote job paying up to 150k base salary. Please reach out.

Hi Fishes,
At walmart global tech
I was interviewed for IN4 Role but HR said based on Feedback they will give me IN3.
its for Data engineering.
My YOE is 7 Years and Already holding offers for around 35 LPA Fixed.
Two questions?
1) Should I accept IN3 level with 7YOE?
2) What is the Capped compensation for IN3 Role?
Salary negotiation is yet to happen.

Any insights into negotiating a full time salary in tech sales? Do I need competing offers to do so?

At what point in the home buying process do you ask the builder/seller for evidence that property taxes have been paid?

Does companies like Booz, AFS have annual raises like big4 firms? I’m work in big4 and not sure other companies has that

How’s work life balance in forensics?

I’m relocating to the US from an international rotation to work in Galveston. I have never been to Texas and I am trying to find the best spot for my family to live in. So far from reading online it sounds like Pearland is a good option but I have not been able to validate that/ figure out what other options are out there. I would appreciate all advice:
1. Would you recommend living in Pearland?
2. What are other good areas to live in? Safe and would like to be less than 1 hour from Galveston.

I’m a bit lost..Does anyone have a resource for compensation negotiation that includes RSUs - for UK specifically? I have never been through the process before and it’s very different in 🇺🇸. Thank you!

My friend’s dad was a firefighter during 9/11 who died very young because of lung cancer. He was one of those who were denied coverage. She was just having a really hard time this week. Her boss knows this and told her last Friday with a straight face that she’s sulking. Some of these VC people man.

Married ppl in your 20s/30s, do your inlaws expect you to greet them for major holidays and their birthdays?

If someone gives you 2 hours of work and you have 2 days to do it. How long are you taking to turn the work in? 🤔

Christmas gift ideas for men ?

Olive Garden was replaced by a Barnes & Noble in my neighborhood Supermarket… I’m unwell by this utter disrespect

Anybody have experience with a legitimate private investigator in the nyc area? This is an awkward conversation with friends and family so thought I would try here. Online presences are difficult to gauge so web not that much help.

Gift giving help: every year around this time my husband brings up his Jan bday and basically demands I spend a lot of $ on him. I find this stressful. I don’t do big lavish gifts but each year I feel pressure to or he won’t be happy. When I say this he immediately launches into “haven’t I done this for you, bought that for you”. “If you loved me you would”. His entitlement and manipulation make me feel super resentful and removes the fun of celebrating him. FWIW we earn the same. What to do?

I came to US few years ago , I have a heavy accent and still struggle to express myself fluently at times. Any advice on best online resources to help with my accent/fluency?

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

What companies/industries are doing well and not likely to layoff?

What’s the best advice you’ve ever received? Life or career wise

The past few months I’ve lost ambition and motivation in my career. Have worked hard to climb my way up the corporate ladder and now report to the CEO but I feel unmotivated and have no interest in looking for a new job and working in a corporate position altogether.

Post a pic of your food and I’ll rate 1-10. Friday food party begins here 🍜

I have to keep reminding myself that I don't need validation from certain people. It's hard.

I’m so tired from dating and looking for a serious relationship, so i just browsed the seeking arrangement website 😐

How did you get good at golf? How long did it take

Everything is meaningless and that’s totally ok with me.

I have no friends. 28 still single. Everyone is married and at different stages in life. My college friends are drifting apart - talking about kids, engagements etc. Anyone feeling this way?