So when I graduated college, my dad said “you did it, you are the first one in our family” and he helped me out by paying back my student loans as I tried to get on my feet. My parents could never afford to pay for my college but my dad was in a better position afterwards. Anyway, my little niece is following in my footsteps, going to my same school, studying art AND psychology and possibly following my other dream of being an art therapist. I’m super proud of her and she made it cont.

I think it’s over with my SO of 3 years. He tells me he loves me and wants to work things through but has lied to me several times in the past - some which were the same mistake three times. He knows he needs professional help (he’s also on antidepressants and has PTSD) but I don’t know how I can trust him again. Feeling completely broken - cannot believe the situation we’re in. I’m so sad my heart is breaking and I don’t know what to do

How long did you date your SO before moving in with them?

My partner of 5 years ended our relationship last night. I’m shattered and feel absolutely sick, and I know the healing isn’t going to be easy. We were on the verge of an engagement and I was ready to spend the rest of my life with him.

I don’t know how to approach work during this time. I think I can get by, but I’m definitely not 100%. Should I talk to my boss about it? My team is close-knit and comfortable around each other, but I don’t know if it’s “appropriate.” What would you do?

When I started in this industry, it was all about radio and direct mail. Now, most are doing video content and influencer marketing. What do you think our children will be influenced by?

Has anyone ever left someone because they don’t want to live a healthy lifestyle? My SO is so unhealthy but doesn’t want to do anything or believes they can’t

Advice Needed!

Situation: Current US Citizen with girlfriend (International) who will be graduating in December and start OPT (1-year). Considering the following options for various reasons, any thoughts/oversights appreciated. Will also consult with a lawyer but wanted to get a gauge from those with experience. Cont.

GF is 32 and I’m 28. She wants kids within 2 years, understandably. I never envisioned having kids that early (more like late 30s), but I like her a lot. Anyone else gone through something similar?

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

I think I want to be in relationship, but I fear that I actually am just lonely and not actually ready for relationship.
I desperatly want someone that I can spend time with, laugh with, and tell good news to amongst so much else.
I don't know what to do or if anything can be done...

Thoughts anyone?

Does anyone here work for Axiom or know someone who does and, if so, how difficult is it to stay fully engaged?

When folks at work use their kids as an excuse to go home early, miss deadlines, not come in, you name it...while you're expected to work 24/7 to get shit done.... 💥🌚😠

Anyone here ever been scared by some major differences in materialism with your partner? I’ve been considered “boujee” by some friends but my girlfriend of just over a year is on a whole other level. Lately because of many of her friends getting engaged / married, rings have been mentioned and she’s said pretty much she wouldnt be happy with under 25k.

I come from a very middle class upbringing, and so does she, although she’s influenced by friends dating professional athletes and stuff

Would it be weird to send my ex a goodbye letter in the mail? He leaves for a military deployment soon for almost 1 year, and I generally care / miss him.

How do you plan to care for yourself this week?

I spent an hour today sitting with one of my patients getting a chemo infusion. Lonely and weird time to not have his wife in there with him

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

Will be getting a 12 week old puppy this weekend. Have been doing a lot of research on how to manage separation anxiety, but curious to see if anyone has any concrete tips (that worked for your pup)?

What role/s do your friends have that you're most envious of? Starting to do research on my next move, and would like to know what others have top of mind....

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

I’m a female who lives with my SO. We’ve been dating for years and we fight a lot so it’s possible a breakup is near. Do you think it would be difficult to date while living with my ex as roommates in a 2br/2ba? We have a lease that’s not even halfway done. In other words, would a man be uninterested in a woman who’s living with her ex (but of course being appropriate after the breakup)?

Hi fishes,
I am looking for a job in Data analytics. I have 8 months of working experience as data analyst. And I am a post graduate recently graduated in 2021. Can you guys help me get a referral

Is there any chance we can change the domain we are working in?

I am looking for a 5-7 year commercial lease in zip code 60654, to commence in August or September 2023.

About 3000-3500 of space, consisting of one big space about 1,200 SQ ft, two smaller rooms, and a couple small offices. Being ADA compliant is important.

I love to work directly with the landlord if possible.

If you know of any availability ease let me know.

What is the back of an envelope kind of estimation of a drug’s market share considering there’s one in market already?

What is salary for a Graduate Structural Engineer (1year) in Perth?

Whats the second source of income for a IT employee ?

Out of curiosity, if I had a secret clearance but left my previous firm and my new firm does not do any form of public consulting therefore does not utilize my secret clearance, and I am planning to travel abroad; who do I notify? How do I notify them? Any form of help would be greatly appreciated!

Recently joined cognizant. Current location is Pune, joining location is kolkata.
Recruitment HR has confirmed in the email that I can collect the asset from pune and work from pune for few days until I go to kolkata.
Onboarding HR is like you have to come down to kolkata for collecting the laptop. Has Anyone faced similar experience?

If I join pwc india in mid of August 2021. Will I be eligible for next year that is 2022 hike and performance bonus. Please enlighten me.

Hi fishes, I got letter of intent from Wipro from the recruiting person on 28th march and given april 28th joining date and i have also accepted it

Also I have sent mail to join early but she is not responding for mails even hr(scheduled interviews) is not responding for calls

Can i get any clarification about this Would i get offer letter before that joining date or else they have gone with other candidate?

Thanks in advance

Tata Consultancy Cognizant Accenture Infosys Deloitte Atos

Someone talk me out of buying a entry level luxury car!

Any idea, on this error " DM privileges has been temporarily revoked " . Not able to see message box. How many days it will be turned back to normal. Anyone faced or facing the same issue ?

What kind of questions does a role alignment interview for a Finance+Ops role at tech company entail ? Is it just a fancy name for evaluating prior experience and the behavioral stuff ? Or is there some framework being tested?

Hi guys can we leave Virtusa in a day? I have got a better offer? Also how is Google account for wlb?

If you are leaving your firm and putting in your two weeks notice, what should be on your checklist to make sure your transition is the smoothest, both for you and for the firm you’re leaving?

Any chance of overcoming 3.34 undergrad gpa from state school? B4 cpa in TAS

Does anyone want a referral to The Siegfried Group? Required 3+ years Big 4 experience.

Just starting to invest, should I make an account with Vanguard or Fidelity?