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1st acknowledging this scenario is less than desired.
Nannies should be treated like family. So they treat your child like family.
I don’t see what the “fire-able” offense is here. I don’t know any parent who hasn’t fallen asleep holding their baby.
No need then to ask for validation. Good luck.
Have you fallen asleep with your baby yet ?
Good work on the no bed sharing . Sorry about your cousins child. I see how that might affect your thinking on this. That said fallen asleep with your baby in yours arms is pretty common. I do find it weird if a nanny did so but expected for every one else . Probably a good bonding moment for you and baby and your spouse who finds you sleeping with the baby :)