This job is literally destroying my relationship. And we live together. I’ve never felt so scared about my personal well being in this industry.

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Hey friend. Don’t lose a relationship you care about to a job that will dump your ass without a second thought. If you need time out, take it. Work a different kind of job for while. Or freelance. It’s hard to see the clouds and the sun when you’ve been underwater for so long but there are plenty of people out there breathing the fresh air and you’ll be ok if you need a break. No shame in that game

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Have you considered client side? I know it’s boring, but I have plenty of time now with my fiancé and newborn. And I don’t want to off myself all the time.

You’re destroying your relationship by the choices you’re making with your job. Own it and fix it.

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