those u r staying in hometown with parents and single in there early 20s...

how you guys manged staying in home this long..around 2+ year..

sometimes I had some arguments with father and feelings like need to go office locations.. don't want to stay here..
like whenever something happens the next thought is next day go to pune...

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he even had issue why I am sitting this much with my laptop lol..
now what to tell.. the work which we r doing its depend on this...
it's source of livelihood..

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May be they don't have anyone talk to except you. May be finding a reason to talk to you. It could be anything. Try to be patient with them and tell during meeting not to disturb you. He'll understand your point of view. I wish things would change between you and your parents.

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I am just fed up of living at home now..
Endless conflict of interest..
I want to relocate and live alone as soon as possible. I am willing to bear the rent and other expenses but I want a break now. I don't want to live with family anymore

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Nothing happened.. it's just that I want to get free from prison..
If I say anything during the argument, they say, because you are earning you have changed.
I literally cry many times .. I just want to live alone now.

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I am sitting doing my work... and he want some mobile number to be saved and I did that.. told me to edit one mobile number put 0 first I deed it..
and then again ask where did I do this.. I can't come to his place etc. etc...

he even don't understand work..
I am sacred to talk in call or attend calls I'm evening because of this...

if someone call be evening he was like what I am doing.. etc. why on call rtc

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25M.. I am also being asked to do same, even buy vegetables and grocery during works - sometimes during meetings i am called for some tiny work.., also i take leaves from office to take my parents to temples and other places

Have patience bro, they are growing old. They can't think like us.

Sit with them talk about their health and other stuffs. It's really good to be with them

(It's very little time left, 10 years will fly by too, average age of human is 65-70, sorry to say this, so spend some time with them?)

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Go out for few days, work from ofc location or any other location n start saying continously there is a work pressure....after coming home start saying if I don't finish my job at time...I will be fired...they will start behaving well in insecurities.
It will bring 2 things to you.
1. Figuring out thing by staying alone.
2. Advantage, disadvantage of staying with parents.
It's hard to accept parents but harder to find a person like them who love unconditionally.

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I never had good conversation with father... not even I school days college days

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I understand when you said that you don't have good conversations with your father. A son and a father - this bond is very diff. Reason - fathers don't express much but that doesn't mean that they don't love their son. If he is asking you to save a no in mob save it . It is not that big a deal. Sit with him and tell him the nature of your work demands you to be with laptop taking calls. He will understand. Maybe he wants to talk to you or spend some time with you. Whatever may be the case - be patient.

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At first place, you need to think why you have arguments with your father that pushes you to think like this. I also have arguments but those are very small and can be ignored.

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Dude , i advised you to go check those people who don't have parents ,
Also must have a look at those parents who take care about their child during their childhood.
Means when a child is born and while he is growing till adult ( even later also they care about ).

You will learn how the parents take care about their children , now go back to your old years too , assume you was also same ,.they are the ones who teach you how to stand , how to run, they nurture you with every those things which wish in life ,

Now imagine once there was a time when you was also a child and keep disturbing , those 9 months unstability of your mother , that hard work your father done for you and your family.
They done all these and even do in future also only for you, not for situation like now you want.
It's all that you are little disturbed now that's why you are not realising there love.
Because in Nutshell i would say Parents love is only Unconditional Love.

It's all you are not realising it. Take a deep breath go back to your past think those days
Believe it or not but
Our Parents are our Real God.

Ask yourself a question what if your parents leave you for your such things ?

Peace out 👍

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Bro
Just marry. Arguments you had with your parents will look like jujubi.

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itane bura haal

he never use to talk casually with us..

Then just go out n create your own thing or make them go out for a trip. Personal space matter a lot.

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Parents Guzarne ke bad regret mat Krna...🙏

hmm, after life ko Jane hi do

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P.S - I am also living at home since 2020.

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