What are dumb things people have said to you regarding maternity leave? I’ll start: enjoy your time off!

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When I returned from mat leave: How was your vacation? I’d be so bored sitting around the house all day/were you bored? Bet you’re well rested now.

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"Enjoy your vacation." Or "Wow, it looks like you really have gained some weight."

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My male colleague said: "I wouldn't mind being pregnant for 40 weeks to earn 2 months at home."

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