What do men think about a girl approaching them/asking them out? I’m a single girl and I feel like it would make me stand out a bit and impress them but I’m also not sure?

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If I was into you I’d like it, if I wasn’t I wouldn’t

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MECE

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Just be careful with it. Virtually no men will say no but that doesn't mean they want to date you. Men are thirsty so they'll just say yes and try to get you in bed. Don't ask me how I know 😩 no good deed

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Damn so true.

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99% of guys would appreciate it even if they aren’t interested.

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There was a girl in college I never even noticed that approached me one day and charmed me into spending a whole year with her haha. Confidence is hot

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I don't know a single guy who wouldn't appreciate it. But be obvious about it -- I don't know a single guy who can read through too much subtlety

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Although it's incredibly old fashioned, many men still like the thrill of the chase. Far better to throw some crumbs their way to show you may be interested in them and let them think they're doing the chasing!

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Before I was married I would have loved that. But be obvious - guys often miss subtle (and even not-so-subtle) signals that women are interested in them.

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I always do this. If I'm into someone, I'll make it known 💁🏻‍♀️

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No reason not to. Do you want to be with somebody that would be turned off by your interest?

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I would not. Best to send signals. If he’s smart he’ll catch on.

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As do ladies lol

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Treat others how you want to be treated 😂

I’d think it would be very presumptive of them given that I’m wearing my wedding band

Single-me would have been all in favor of it though. I’d appreciate the confidence

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