Where’s the fishbowl dating app - maybe I should stop being single forever 😂

Im attracted only to guys with dry humor. Not the overly talkative kind; just sophisticsted chill level. The kind of guy that can make fun of me all the time (without being mean). My ex was an introvert too and I miss being with someone who liked his alone time as much as I do. Anyone over 30, in NYC and looks like Colin Jost?

Can managers date staff?

It’s interesting to see conversations around age gap on this thread. I am 44F and get approached by younger guys who want to date older women. Most recently by 28M and he seems mature and level headed. Knows where he is and where he is going, doesn’t want kids, etc. Although our goals align, I am not able to come to terms with the age gap but he thinks we should give it a try. I would like to hear this group’s opinions on this. TIA

Why is it so difficult to find a decent man...

So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

Will there ever be a day that brown women aren’t judged by their single/married status?

What’s a good bar to take myself out on a date this weekend?

Cannot get a read on this girl. Says she’s excited to see me again after we went on a few dates but then the following couple days she doesn’t contact me at all and she normally texts everyday.

I was recently acquainted with a beautiful officer at work. Can I as a civilian hook up with her? Please advise, thanks!

I feel like I have such high and unrealistic standards for a partner that I'll remain single forever.

Anyone know a good date option for 1st date - I’m in north county but taking out a girl who doesn’t drink on Friday night , so I don’t want to pressure her with a bar setting.

Y’all, I legit haven’t met any guys organically. I play social sports that I have gone to parties. But then I’m still single and don’t ever get asked to go on dates ugh

What’s a reasonable Christmas gift for a girl I’ve been dating for less than 3 weeks?

Worst attention seeking behaviors?

Moving to Austin . 30 M any F around to catch up dinner lunch and city trip

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

Got asked out on a date. After I agreed he ghosted. It’s been 3 weeks and he just texted “Hey, sorry for the delay. I’m down to hang out anytime.” Is it even worth replying?

This is way to close for my liking

Do most single guys have dating profiles (please say no 😬)

Does IHS or S&P Global HR revise up the offer, if we go back to them with a counter offer?

Looking for canada onsite opportunity in IBM.
7 YOE . Full stack tech lead. JAVA, Angular, AWS, NodeJs

I have a good belief to believe I, and others of my kind are being systemically discriminated against at work. There was a particular incident recently that affected me. I am the in house employment counsel for the company - and now feel like I am in a weird position. Can I file an EEO complaint against my client, or do they just get to do whatever they want to me? Obviously outside counsel would need to be hired, and a wall put up. Looking for info thanks.

Anybody work at Apple could help with a discount?

Looking to make the move from big corporate (20k employees) into startups.

Ask: has anyone swapped from a fairly senior engineering role into a startup? What did you sacrifice from corporate world, what do you gain and what concessions did you have to make (e.g. WLB/pay)?

Context: 8 YOE Engineering, full stack, mix of technologies, mostly JS/TS. I've built a lot of different things and managed teams, bored by the pace of corporate and feel stagnated in my career.

what age did you get married?

Looking for a roommate in 3BHK flat, AWHO Vijay Vihar Wagholi from December
Rent - 7.5K (including electricity bill)

What do you put on your time sheet now that busy season is over and there’s no billable hours? Just training and admin?

Any Austin realtors in the bowl?

Guidehouse State & Local 🐠: what is your typical schedule / hours per week? Are your work hours flexible? Also what benefits do you have on local projects? (Are you able to expense meals, mileage when driving to the client, etc?) TIA!

Feel like I have no idea where to start. I want to lose weight and tone up, lifting weights at the gym is preferred but does anyone have a work out plan they recommend that will get me results?

Which one of the big 4s has the highest turnover 🤔

What do you all make? Appreciate if you could include title and cost of living area.

Sorry if this has been asked before!!

New to EY. Are there any special benefits Senior Managers get that staff do not?

I need good resources, ideas or projects to help teach the Ancient Civilizations of India, China, Mesopotamia and Egypt

Does monkeypox leave permanent scars? Does the vax prevent the blisters?

A guy who I was seeing for 6 months and who ghosted me suddenly just let me know that he got back with his ex. Pretty devastated tbh. What’s helped you get over similar situations?

Recent immigrants: How common is it to live at home until or prior to marriage? I’m weirded out that my guy lives with his parents, still but my bestie says it’s not uncommon for Asian families.

10 likes and I’ll go up to the hot guy at the gym and compliment his beard.

Hi everyone - I’m just beginning my career and I’m very proud of the work I’ve done in accepting myself and living openly after having grown up Catholic. Through a lot of self-examination, I’ve started to realize the full extent of the trauma I experienced and held onto from growing up LGBT. I’m honestly surprised that this part of the process isn’t more talked about as it seems to be a relatively common experience. Are there any resources you’d recommend to help with this healing process?

Hi fellow queer fishes. I'm looking for b2b marketing opportunities (even freelance and part time gigs work). I have 7 years of experience and have served more than 40 companies so far on the agency side. My expertise is ABM and Inbound.
Can you please help this fish out?

I know this is tacky af to say and probably makes me seem v cheap, but if you had no intention to hang out again after dinner why did you let me pay for you?! Venmo me back!! 😡

Are there any places people would recommend in Napa? Going to be there for a few days.

Anyone else 🤤 when American Ninja Warrior comes on?

Am I gonna be alone forever?! I’ve been in a handful of long term relationships. Some great and we ended as friends, some ended crappy. But all in all I do have some relationship experience. But after this last break up, I’m starting to get a little hopeless..(34yo lesbian here)

For those of you who are based in NYC, what are you all doing for New Year’s Eve?

That was quite the snow squall in Manhattan!

Anyone at DU next week? I’m there T-F

Y’all, I legit haven’t met any guys organically. I play social sports that I have gone to parties. But then I’m still single and don’t ever get asked to go on dates ugh

This is so frustrating. Why are the hot ones ALWAYS in open relationships. I’m over these apps. I’m taking another break from all of them. Complete BLACKOUT (by Britney Spears).

Who’s going to Puerto Vallarta for holidays and NYE?

Need some advice from some lesbian fish:

I’m in my late 20s not fully out yet (but have told close friends and family im “not straight”). Up until several days ago, I hadn’t even kissed another girl..

It’s taken me a long time to get to this point and as of recent, the only thing on my mind has been to find another likeminded girl to fool around with in hopes of having my first sexual experience with another woman. *CONT IN COMMENTS*

Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

Anyone stop taking their prep during this?

Any MBA applicants waiting for Stanford / Harvard results next week?