Why and when did you choose to go into the military?

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I wanted to go into the military because not many women are in the military and wanted to prove that women can do it as well as men.

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To get out of my home town and see the world. Retired after 27 years, visited 42 countries and lived in seven of them.

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Free college. I joined in the year 2000. Little did I know shit got real a year later. I served 9 years and received a degree in computer science and making good money in tech.

Im a 1st generation American. I came from an extremely low income family, both parents were custodians and I had 2 other siblings. We all lived inside a 2 bedroom apartment.

I eventually decided that I wanted to do something different to break the cycle of being poor (plus I also wanted to go to college after). So I enlisted at 17 with my parents written consent.

I was failing at college, partying too hard, and broke. Figured 4 years of service in the Marine Corps would provide some stability and give me another opportunity to try to get a college degree - paid for up front this time. Did my 5 years, came home, enrolled in the same university, finished my bachelors then went on to do my masters. I think my plan worked out alright :)

Was intending on going to college and as actually enrolled and had my first semester class schedule but just could not afford it being from a poor dirt farmer family in Kansas. Followed my two older brothers in, two younger also eventually followed, at one time all five of us were in.

I couldn’t figure out my path in life. I failed out of college and racked up what felt like an impossible amount of debt to pay back. I was working at a grocery store making less than $10/hr.

I joined because I couldn’t find jobs with my four year degree. The best I could find was working an office job for like $15/hr with mediocre benefits if that.

For me, it was sort of a family legacy. Great grandfather, grandfather, and father all joined the army

It’s a family tradition

In 2000, after 4 of my friends were murdered in a 4 person homicide. The deaths took place in a time and space where I was normally at. Through the grace of GOD I was at work that night. Joining the Army ended up being one of the best decisions I ever made.

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