2.5 years without alcohol today. Finally getting to the point where I don’t miss it, and it smells like a nasty chemical for first time since aged 14. I still miss all the fun I had, and it still pulls at me. But my life is so much better now in every way. It is 100% worth it, and it gets easier!

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Thank you, you have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I've been really struggling since I hit a year. Glad to know it can still keep getting better and easier and this isn't as good as it gets.

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Congratulations. I’m 51 days in and still crave it. Doing well but I do miss it and it’s often on my mind.

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CONGRATSSSS 🥳🥳🥳 that’s huge. I’m almost 4 years in and I’d be lying if I said I don’t remember the fun times I had. But that’s ok! The reality is I had a lot of fun, otherwise I wouldn’t have fallen in love with alcohol like I did. But today I have the ability to concede that the fun stopped and it led me to the deepest darkest days of my life. I cannot drink like a lady no matter how hard I try. But today I have a sufficient substitute, and it has given me a new life 💖

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First off congrats on 2.5 years OP. That is truly amazing and deserves to be celebrated. Secondly I am right htere with you. I have gotten to where the smell just makes me gag and I don't even crae it anymore.

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