A colleague took something of mine of value (let's say $100).the object was not in my pedastal or desk, but in the immediate surroundings, so quite possible it belonged to me (or my neighbor). I only noticed a few weeks later, as i have been OOO a while. Initially she left it in plain sight at times, but now it is safely guarded (i sit very close by so i saw it). This is not worth an HR complaint and i do not have any proof the object is mine but it is very annoying. What would you do? thanks

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Can you just loudly ask your co-workers “hey, has anyone seen my (designer name) umbrella? It’s been a few weeks and I know the last time I had it was here in the office.”

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Just tell them its yours, take it back and thank them for looking after it for you.

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Was the object your personal property? Or company property allocated to you?

If your personal property, why was it not stored securely - as it was valuable. Was the intention for others to benefit from this object?

This may simply be a case where person did not know this item was someone’s personal property. I’d have a kind and open minded convo with person if you see it on their desk OR if item is missing I’d send a kind an non accusatory note to your team asking’hey! I’m back from my vacation and I can not seem to find my loved ‘object’. Has anyone seen it? My friend gave it to me so it is a bit meaningful’

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thanks a lot for your opinion. it was personal property and no intention to share it with others without permission; i believe it was not stolen but borrowed in need (this is a designer umbrella) and not returned back.
i did not feel the need of storing it or maybe i just was careless (lesson learnt!). for me it is a matter of principle now and, secondly, it was a Christmas present from a relative i am very attached to.

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If you know where it is and can see it plain site, I would just walk right up to the object as if it were in a 'lost & found' say "I've been where this was" pick it up and walk out

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