More tenured male consultants with earrings/studs? Ever had any issues with them? I generally take them them off if I'm meeting clients for the first time (depending industry/sector/location) but someone said that people actually care about how I look. C close to SC.

99% of the time, I wear really small 3mm studs btw

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Don't have earrings, but I paint my nails and haven't had an issue

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If you're younger, a known SMA, and kill it, congratz youre building a brand

but you better do all 3

This can work for conservative crowds too.... assuming you can pull off all 3 under immense pressure. There's a couple guys who definitely take liberties with design, but when push comes to shove they can swap from abstract business decisions to the fine points of architecture in a heart beat.

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You better be the top 1% of performers

Some men look hot with studs. But not sure how client appropriate it is.

That's strange.

earrings or studs? I just got black studs and don't seem to be an issue

I'm also pretty junior so idk if higher you go there's more judgement lol

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