By when should you tell your team that you’re pregnant?

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Is your partner/director the father? If so, make sure you get a great evaluation before dropping the bomb. If a client is the dad, run through as many expenses as possible to his charge code and then drop the bomb. If it is anyone else, do not worry about it.

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I think 12 weeks. That’s the standard amount of them to wait to tell anyone (other than your spouse). And it will give them enough time to look for a temp while you’re on maternity leave.

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Wait until 15-16 weeks. Life is rough, things can happen. Game it a little - we had a due date that was the 31st of a month, I told them the due date was the 1st of the next month because it sounded further in the future. Like March 31 vs April 1.

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Once you start showing. Congratulations!

when you're really really sure, you are pregnant.

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