I’m at my step dad’s lake house and it’s in a gated very upper class neighborhood. There was a holiday party last night and it was incredible how much people were gossiping and talking crap about other people at this party. Everyone was very “successful” and wealthy, and it was just so weird seeing all of this drama and gossip from people who seem to have it all.

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When all the big problems have been solved, only the small ones remain...

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It’s called Maslow’s Hierarchy

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Humans be human...

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Gossip isn’t necessarily bad. It promotes social bonding and creates tacit accountability. It’s literally what makes us the social animals we are.

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I want me friendships and relationships to be based off more than just talking bad about others. Yes venting can be good but that’s if it’s constructive. If all you’re doing is whining and complaining to each other, no thanks

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Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

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I always hear Eleanor Roosevelt, but I am not an etymologist.

Regular human behavior. if we gossip in the barrio where we have more issues to worry about…they can do it too

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Nothing like abuelitas chismeando a todo fuego

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Mo money mo problems, which is probably why there’s more to gossip

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Gossip is also what bonds people. I do think as professionals we should try to reflect on it a bit. I tend to go along with the flow but I don’t keep spreading the gossip if you know what I mean

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Sounds about right

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What else are they gonna do?

Literally every consulting project. So much client gossip, it’s embarrassing

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