Finding that elusive work-life balance...it's like walking a tightrope between professional obligations and personal well-being. So, spill the beans—what's your secret sauce for maintaining sanity amidst the chaos? Let's swap stories, strategies, and maybe even share a virtual *cheers* to conquering the balancing act together! Cos a gurl is TIRED!🙃😭

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My work provides a work cell phone. I only have my emails on that phone. Notifications shut off M-F at 5:30 pm and don't go back on until the morning at 8:30 AM. It's on do not disturb on the weekend. If there is an actual urgent need, my execs have my personal cell to contact me. But it's rarely ever used because things can usually wait.

I'll still check my emails once or twice a day on the weekend, mostly to cut down on the amount of emails to deal with on Monday morning. I'm very intentional on when and how often I do that outside of work hours.

I've worked in the past where I'm constantly checking and responding at all hours of the day. I'd go into the almost every Sunday because it was quiet and I could get so much done. This was also on top of having a side job on Saturdays as well. I realized that I was on the clock way more than the CEO. And for what? When I finally stopped all of that, I vowed to never go back to that kind of life. Until I make 7 figures like my execs, work and life are separate.

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I love how resolute you are, MS!

When I leave work, I mentally leave work. I don't bring it home or worry about it. It took me almost working myself 6-feet under to learn that lesson. Boundaries are so important!

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Amen! I won't give them my personal number. If they want me to have a phone, it will be locked up in my desk with my laptop at 5pm.

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I leave my phones outside of my bedroom because I will not get up for anything when I am cozy. I also turn off my work notifications when I get home. I still leave them on weekends but it's a start!

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I'm seeing a pattern....enforcing boundaries seem to be the only solution

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