Guys, we are married for less than one year...our terms are not good....high likely, we may end up in divorce soon....please tell me on precautions to be taken at this stage. I am a guy and my wife is a dependent wife

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

Wanted to share this somewhere.
My father has been very aggressive and keeps on creating quarrel like situations at home day in and day out.
I care for him a lot. However, i have tried both calm and aggressive tones during quarrels, but it also didn't help.
Now it's becoming unbearable to keep on getting involved with his quarrels over little things... considering this scenario I am also not proceeding with matrimonial process as not sure how the girl will handle this
28M here
Any suggestions?

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Hello fellow fishes!

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Tinder on Fish bowl

This bowl is for people to discuss and get prospective matches to try one more times and start afresh.

How much time your divorce procedure took?