Has anyone called it quits on the Reserve or National Guard with 10+ year in to focus on your civilian career?

I recently pivoted into software development and would like to leave and double-down on my new civilian career, but feel like it would be insane to leave the Tricare and pension (likely $2k / month @ 60).

Really don't want to just "do it all" work wise since I have a young family.

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

I did. Bounced ~14; 11 years active and 3 reserve.
I hated every single second of the reserves so when I got to a point where I didn’t need the money anymore I told them to shove it. No regrets whatsoever.

like

Yea I could see that being frustrating. I don’t know how reserve pilots do it even in squadrons. Seems like you’d basically be full time anyways with all the currency requirements

Yes!!!

I was 14 total. 4 yrs Reserve undergrad. 7 and change AD. 2 yrs Reserve grad school where I wanted to test it. When I finished grad school, I decided that’s it and my new career is what’s next. My S1 (20 yr reservist) grabbed a physical calendar and tried to walk me thru all the money I’d lose over a life without being a careerist ~425K. I said “brother, I plan to make that annually in 5-10 years.” I’m on year 7 and make +300K annual; salary and bonus.

Overall, it’s a question of supplemental income at 55-60 and on vs how you see your career trajectory in the next 20. It’s up to you. Happy to discuss it

- dad of 3

like

It’s a no brainer from a a financial perspective if you do decently enough in your regular job. I think a deciding factor comes down to some of the intrinsic factors and potentially healthcare, though with military retirees getting moved to Medicare that may not factor in at all now?

Recent IconRecent

Same here as SD1. There’s easier ways to make and extra thousand or so a month.

like

I would stay for 20. I love the Reserve and it gives me the perfect outlet to do things my civilian career doesn’t offer me. Plus I can go on orders when I want or deployments. I don’t have a family though.

like

Brother, I retired with 26 years. Most of those as an AGR with the Reserves and I saw many of my brothers and Sisters do what you're contemplating. 10% of those were happy with that decision. Don't do it! Retirement is worth your secondary focus, trust me!

like

Maybe getting $2k/month in 25 years is basically zero on a risk adjusted basis.

I’m contemplating walking away from a pension that’s 300x that size… fund your retirement by saving for it.

GTFO and focus on your civilian career. You’re not going to start getting a reserve pension for nearly 20 years after you “retire” at 20 YOS. That’s a lot of time to maximize your civilian total comp. Life is better as a civilian as well

like

Not being in the reserves doesn’t mean you will get all the success in your civilian career either. Unless there’s been a very direct impact, it’s not always a causation, I’m still in for the Tricare and honestly I’m still in the phase where putting on the uniform makes me feel…different, civilians think it’s cool as heck and prior military colleagues would ask about things or if I mention drill. it brings up a moment among everyone sharing stores. my teams/office also does veteran day stuff. still get to have some non monetary benefits and have another "cool" life thats not just work and not work. that being said i dont or volunteer much outside regular drill time, doesnt help with promotion or having cool experience but my civilian job pay the bill…only 6 years in and dual military with no kids, so i got lucky with someone who understands its not all about the $$$ and honestly i aint doing much outside work if i didnt have the reserves..its more work but same time makes me appreciate contractor life, i also support dod as contractor so putting on that uniform remind me 1) life could be a lot worse 2) why what i do matters. i also have slight mission overlap between the two roles so it helps

like

I've not done it but a good friend did 14 years and bounced for the same reasons. Happy as can be

like

I’m in this exact predicament. I’ll be at 12 yrs of service most reserves and I’ve decided this will be my last year. It’s not what it used to be, I lose money going to drill and not being able to retire at 20yrs because of the point system is ridiculous to me. I feel like the reserves and guard is a WASTE of time. Luckily my hubby is active duty so he’s got me for tricare 😂 but otherwise service members and retirees get treated like crap. They don’t care or take care of them or the families. So we decided after having our baby it was my time to leave and focus on my civilian career making wayyyy more. You can get benefits anywhere just remember that. By the time you actually get out they could change things like the age, when you can draw on your benefits, etc

like

Reserve/ guard time is different is different. If you’ve been that your whole career you don’t retiree with fully eligible benefits at 20 years. Your time is calculated differently, only exceptions are active duty time or orders such as ADOS and title 10. If you log into IPPSA your DEROS will be different comparatively so from someone with active duty time and someone with out. Yes, you have to have good years your whole career, being just reserves or guard your 20 year letter for retirement with benefits doesn’t come at 20yrs you’ll typically ended up serving more time. I’m saying with BENEFITS. I see it happen all the time.

Yes. No regrets.

like

There are opportunities to do all your service at once for the year via the IMA program. After my command, I am looking to coast in the IMA program for the last 10 years until I hit my 20 years. I should retire as a LTC by that point.

like

K1, that’s exactly it. You have complete autonomy over your career and your time.

like

I did exactly this and it was easily one of the best career and life decisions i made. I may be in a very different place in life as you though.

like

Yes, by a two or three multiples I imagine!

like

I have this debate every month when I go to drill.
I am currently:
- 9 years active, 4 in reserves = 13 years total
- O4 rank
- 100% rating

Why stay in:
- I work in startups so not having to worry about benefits is nice
- reserves holds my clearance so I switch between govt and civilian sectors
- looking forward to the pension- my dad has one a d every little penny counts when you are old
- my unit is local which means no travel time

The things that suck:
- I make no money on drill weekends - you have to pay the VA back
- 12 day work weeks suck
- the stupidity of admin always shocks and frustrates me

Overall: I’m looking at it beyond the money. It’s nice being a part of something larger. Also, the money will be nice when the time comes. I am also an IMA so the flexibility also helps. I have also made a decision that reserves is second to everything, so I am not focused on promoting and checking all the boxes

like

When I did it a couple of years ago it was painfully slow, right now it’s interesting. Attrition is trash and they can’t get any new people to apply, son everyone is hurting. However on the flip side many billets are getting cut. Reach out to people at the unit and see if someone on the inside can help you understand which billets would be the best to pursue

Following as I recently joined af reserves. What’s the best way to balance this? I’m assuming defence contractors are way more friendly

What is your mos or branch? And is it correlated to your civilian profession?

If you don't need the cash, do what makes you happy

It's not so much the month to month as much as it makes for easier retirement planning.

That’s what one of my best friends I deployed with did. Think he was on like year 8-9 or something though. He’s making solid money now and seems pretty happy

Related Posts

Hi! I am super new to this app and I see a consistent ask about latina(x) mentors. Has anyone been able to find one and how? I am still looking and frankly could you use all the support. I am the only latina in my office and culturally sometimes I hit these invisible walls that make me feel so incredibly self conscious. I am the first to have a degree in my family so they do support me but there’s a huge gap. I want to know how to navigate big law/private practice without losing myself & culture

like

I have my annual review coming up and want to hear thoughts on what a reasonable raise expectation is. I report to the COO and currently make $94k + up to 10% annual bonus based on company hitting their revenue goal + I have 3000 stock options. I have 3 YOE in customer success but pivoted to a non technical program manager role at a series c tech startup last September. I have been getting consistently positive feedback at quarterly reviews. What raise should I aim for?

like
like

How well are ATK and Oliver Wyman known in Toronto / Canada? From what I understand they mainly have presence in US. Is that true? Do people hired out of Toronto offices work on US projects (mostly)? How do their salaries equate?

like

Hello,

LTI or Mindtree ?
Offering same package.

I heard about the merger, will there be any impact ?

YOE:7
Tech : Data Analytics

like

What are the Grade in TCS ??

C2 vs C3A what are the differences.....in policy and specially in insurance and if any other benefits

Kindly share the differences between C2 IT analyst vs C3A assistant consultant

like

Hi folks need information on salary range for principle consultant in Infosys with 22 yrs exp

like

Do big4 directors retire with the same benefits as partner or some other?

funnylike

Looking for some advice…I’ve been told that transitioning to L&D should be “easy“ given my experience and skills (résumé posted for reference - note that I adapt it per position). I have tried applying for specialist to Director positions but I’m not having much luck. Any suggestions on position type and level that I should be focused on. (I have executive level exp. and cannot afford to start an entry-level position.)

Post Photo
like

Any insights on bonus & hike ? By considering recession/inflation.

like
like

Does anyone know how to become an independent contractor?

like

Has anyone worked for Sentry Insurance? I’m being recruiting and I’m curious about their culture & compensation.

like

Hi fishes

My package is 25.5 LPA fixed. Can someone suggest which tax regime would be better for me. As of now I do not have a home loan to claim tax benefit.
Also what could be the in hand salary in my case.
PF deduction : 153000

like

Anyone know a reliable source (not Glassdoor) for seeing comp info of open jobs?

like

What is the performance review cycle at Salesforce? Will someone hired in November/December be eligible to receive the annual bonus?

like

What is the salary I should ask for in IBM.. YOE: 6.5, SAP FICO… Current Salary 15 LPA

like

What is it like working at redant labs..I don't know much about this company...does anyone know if it is okay to accept an offer from redant labs.
Also I have an offer from Wipro.. should I join wipro or redant labs..both same salary

Hi Fishes,
Any news of hikes in OSSI?

like

More Posts

I HATE the term ‘snackable content’. It just makes me angry! My content should be a damn steak dinner.

likefunny

When are rating going to be out for KGS. Any update anyone

like
like

Is there a need for freelance community managers?

like

I just connected some dots and got a colleague off the bench and on some billable work. What a great feeling! 🤓

like

When did you know you were falling out of love with your partner? Did you fix it, or break things off and why?

In search of stories to hopefully understand a phase in my own long term relationship.

like

Any consulting fish preparing for a PE exit willing to chat about prep and what to expect from the interview process?

like

I’m relocating to London and would love to hear recommendations on neighborhoods. I am looking for an “urban village” feel (small coffee shops, not very touristy, can walk a dog and stroller) with a budget of 3K for a 1-2 bdr. My commute would be into Soho. I am currently looking at Notting Hill, Chelsea, and St John Woods, but I won’t be able to visit before my move. Any neighborhood recs?

like

What is the back of an envelope kind of estimation of a drug’s market share considering there’s one in market already?

funnylike

What are the best consulting companies to work for in life science consulting? Specifically for supply chain.

like

Help me out which company is better to join Vodafone india services pvt ltd(_VOIS) : 7 ctc Hexaware : 9 cts + joining bonus 50k Plese reply 🙏 your suggestions

Does anyone know when the comp adjustments are officially active on your paycheck? Is it July 31?

like

Does Deloitte sponsor H1Bs? The website says they don’t sponsor, so slightly confused as I see people here posting about having offers and will be soon going though H1B process. For context I am not in the USA.

like

What stocks are you guy guys buying right now in this market?

like

Any citi India HR Here? Need to ask something trivial. Don't worry already working in citi

like

1. Need some feedback how anyone proceed during HCL Technologies Discover portal login. It's showing me invalid login continuously and using forget password options, able to login one time by luck 2. BGV documents uploading links are routing to smart portal. Will it be the same credentials which is being used during discover portal login? Asked my recruiter HR, but no reply so far
3. Anywhere we need to accept the offer Letter?
HCL Technologies

like

Has anyone seen the changes to United’s loyalty program? Any thoughts on the PlusPoints or new qualifying rules?

Wipro


Impetus is giving me 14 fixed for 3.5+ YOE- Big data? Could it be negotiable? They are saying they can negotiate more if joining date is near 🤣 wtf

like

DO YOU JUST ASSUME THE COST OF YOUR MARKETING ACTIVITIES? I am looking to allocate their cost in the marketing budget in a way that won't rely on several layers of assumptions. How do you reliably estimate the cost of different marketing activities (email, social, web, etc) when you don't have specific people or tools allocated to each function and costs are spread across many channels? Ads seems the easiest, but even then there's time and overheads... I've been looking for a reliable model.

like

Additional Posts in Veteran Bowl

How long after transitioning did you start to feel comfortable in your role? Feeling major imposter syndrome in my first 3 months

like

What are the best consulting firms for someone with a TS/SCI with FSP? Non staffing roles. I’d rather do strategy, transformation, tech integration, etc...

likehelpful

How’s everyone doing?

like

I did my time and got out and was thrilled but now I am insanely bored and don’t have much motivation. Am considering getting back in or applying to become a police officer / fed...cont

like

M7 Bschools with most scholarship opportunities for vets?

Anyone here downshift in life post service?

Feel like I've been going full bore for the past decade and literally have no problem continuing the trend. Like I could just keep marking milestones and grinding or whatever until I die.

Wondering when if anyone else felt similar and decided to pull back and do something more relaxing. What was the catalyst, what are you doing, and are you enjoying it?

I'd considered taking up a 9-5 somewhere but not sure if thatd wear off fast.

like

Anyone use a lawyer to get increased disability? If so, any recommendations?

Founded a Nonprofit to help coach veterans in transition and exiting first responders and their families while focusing on changing the stigma of mental health conversation.

Cont

like

Perspective. I’m retiring from the service and I’ve positioned myself decently to be competitive. I have a graduate degree pursuing a doctorate, LSSBB, ScrumMaster, SPHR, and PMI-ACP. I’ve been offered two positions that are great and on the human capital team. For someone in this situation where should I be looking as commensurate with my certifications and experience?

like

PwC'ers. How much am I looking at for healthcare for myself, my wife, and toddler?

I start in a week, haven't seen figures yet.

Thoughts on Veteran status and the ongoing corporate layoffs?

like

Just want to rant. Failed an interview because I brought up ranger school being the reason I left the military. Cont. Below.

likesmart

Anyone has done state OCS, which is 18 months long and has any insights to share?

like

I am a traditional reservist so I never really used military benefits before, but could use advice here.

I am currently renting and my lease is not up until October 2021, however I found a good deal on a home and scheduled to close in June 2021.

My landlord will not work with me to end the lease early, so it looks like I will have to double up on rent and mortgage through the summer.

If I went on active duty orders, can I use those orders to break my lease early without penalty?

like

Has anyone heard of The Next Step program at Dartmouth’s Tuck school of business? I’ve been Encouraged to apply

like

McKinsey & Company Anyone at McKinsey & Company willing to refer a Marine veteran (OIF, I swear I will not eat all the crayons. "Crayons" are for art is what my wife tells me to tell myself)

5yrs Marines (Sgt, Comm maint tech w infantry Bn)
8yrs in Oil & Gas (engr coordinator, qty surveying and proj ctrl)
CM undergrad
MBA (professional program, graduated May 2022)

I'm looking for a role in McK serving O&G, industrial, capital projects clients. Open to generalist roles as well. Can review for vetting.

likefunny

I'm seeing a meme float around on facebook today regarding VA payments for anthrax shot related issues if it came from the squalene laced lots the FDA identified. Any truth to it? I'm skeptical.

Hey all. I and some coworkers are reservists. We are trying to get the reserve leave policy more in line with other NYC bank's and consulting firms, as the bank does almost the bare minimum for userra. Was hoping some of you all wouldn't mind sharing the highlights of your institutions reserve leave policy so I can present a benchmark.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal