Hi All! I am a Paralegal w/ 18+ yrs of exp I recently accepted a role. Going into the office 5 days a week is killing me. I am a single mom of 4 and it just seems unnecessary to pay for before & after school care, my kids are sitting at school 5+ extra hours a day, the commute time is a waste of time and not to mention paying to park/public transportation costs. I thought I could juggle it all. Any thoughts? Should I address this w my superiors or just give my notice? Hybrid would be ideal

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why’d you accept the position knowing it was 5 days in office? With your circumstances, wouldn’t you have wanted to negotiate those terms before acceptance?

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do you really think that’s that the only alternative OP had? like cmon…

I'd get their input or feedback before leaving. They may really value you. Please let us know how this turns out.

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1) are there other paralegals that work hybrid? 2) I would ask for an accommodation for 2 days at home a week for a trial period of 60 days.

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What state are you in?

I live in Nj but work in PA (Philly Center City)

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Well you are very fortunate to have a job!! Keep it or go out into the cold cruel world. Unless, of course, you really don’t need it, then free it up for someone who does.

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Hi I’m serving notice and have around 20 days left.
Have offer from PS and centric consulting.
CTC is almost same . PS is giving SAL1 designation

How’s WLB and work culture at sapient?
Centric is PWF and sapient is hybrid as of now.
Do sapient hire and fire?

Tech stack : dotnet full stack with angular

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I need some advice. I am currently working as Manager in PWC with 14+ years of experience. I recently received an offer from CGI which states 36 lakhs as Fixed and overall 40 lakhs CTC including Share purchase and Bonus.

Skills - Agile Leader.

Role offered in CGI - Manager Consulting Expert

Location - Bangalore

BU which I am getting hired is Energy and Utilities.

How's the work culture, job security and work life balance

Please advice

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How is work life balance in amdocs.

Anyone lateraled at the 2-4 year mark from boutique (40ish lawyers, corporate lit work on same level as biglaw, making top NY pay) to v100? Can you say anything about the experience? The reason I’m considering is while boutique is generally a good place for me as an associate (NY pay, reasonable WLB, good experience on many fronts) there’s basically zero shot at making partner.

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I'm a cashier. We just got a new manager, and she's making things really hard for us. She starts work at 4:30am and leaves around 2:30pm, but she still expects us to stay until 6pm and work on the weekends! She gives us really long shifts and doesn't give us much time for breaks. And when we ask her about it, she gets mad.

I'm worried that if I speak up, she'll make my life even harder. I don't want to lose my job because of this—do you guys have any advice?

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I have offers in,
Fidelity Investment (equity sec) : 20.5 LPA + 3.0 L (variable) = 23.5 LPA
Wipro (Apple project) : 25LPA
Verizon : 26 LPA
I have got my retention proposal for 23.5 LPA at my current company.

Do anyone have idea on wlb in FIS and verizon. Is it a good idea to accept retention..
Which one to choose?
YOE: 8.0
Teach stack : java, Spring boot,Microservice, docker..

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Hii
How is dbs project in ibm in term of wlb, carrier growth etc.

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Persistent Systems Limited Hello fishes, Please suggest which one is best in terms of WLB, Job security and carrier growth. 1. Hitachi Vantara 2. Rakuten India 3. Persistent systems limited 4.Neudesic LLC 5. Thoughtworks
6.Publicis Sapient

Not received offer so far. All the above in pipeline please suggest me how much can expect.

Tech stack: Dot. Net Full stack developer, 7+ exp Please provide some insight about the company suggest by you.

CTC: 15 LPA fixed

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Does anyone know about Stabilix solutions? Growth opportunities and wlb?

Larsen & Toubro Infotech Capgemini - 27 CTC + 1 JB, C2 Manager

Larsen & Toubro Infotech - 27 CTC + 2 JB , P3 Specialist - Cloud Software and Services BU

Yoe - 7 Tech - .Net

Looking for Job security with long term stay and WLB and good learning exposure.

How would be work pressure and responsibilities pressure in both ?

Confused because Capgemini is providing Manager designation which is some high as per me experience.

I have only 2 days remaining to join. Kindly help 🙏

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Is it possible to make a high salary in wealth management while still maintaining some degree of work-life balance? How do people do it? It's a mystery to me

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Having total 8 years of experience in automation testing. Now I feel like to have some easy going project in any company where I can settle for rest of my life. Please suggest me best companies for work life balance.

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Also, is this a startup org?

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I am bit confused currently. Please help me with genuine suggestions.I am currently working in TCS since 7 years and TCS was my first company. TCS is giving me 6.25lpa. Now I got an offer of 16lpa in CTS for Automation Testing role. But once I started talking to friends i got to know that one of my frnd has recently been fired from CTS last year due t unavailability of project. Now i am scared as I m single child of my parent and i have to pay emi and handle my household. Please suggest

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