Hi everyone,
I posted here just once before. It was about my mental wellbeing which is going worse each day..
I literally cant function anymore due to anxiety which is usually happening as a panic attack, and depression and I need someone to help me technically, preferably a civil or geotechnical engineer, can anyone give me an idea how to reach out one to consult or can anyone help me with my tasks? Im willing to pay. Thank you.

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Hey DE, it sucks that you're having a tough time of it - mental health is tricky and you need to give it the time and space it needs. Please please seek help via therapy or other means. What you're asking for here probably have legal ramifications associated (if I'm understanding you re: technical help to do some of your tasks). Instead consider asking for time off work or for your workload to be adjusted.

Don't be afraid to reach out to HR at your company, they may have people who can help.

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