I am avoiding meeting people and canceling plans. Trying to figure out if I am depressed.

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You likely are. Whenever I've had my phases of depression over the years, that's something I did. I closed out the world and just kept to myself. Ask yourself why you're doing it as a start. From there be honest with yourself and see if you might be depressed

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