I don’t know who needs to hear this but if she declined a kiss at the end of date (and there have been a couple of dates), she isn’t that into you

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Obviously…

If it was obvious, I wouldn’t be posting anonymously in the SF bowl bc my friends and I have experience this.

She just wanted someone to pay for her meals

Or i just wasn’t that into him? Especially since we each paid for our own coffee / drinks on each date.

So should the person just move on?

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