I feel envious of others my age who I came up with at a previous firm getting into great bschools. I’m grinding away, trying to prepare for the GRE, formulating my story and coming into my own in a new role. Why do I always feel like I’m behind?

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Comparison is the thief of joy, my friend.

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Because you're comparing yourself to others. You are your own human, in your own life, on your own journey. Just do you and don't worry about it. 🙂

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@KPMG I completely understand. I fight doing it myself but I'm getting past it. Just have to remind myself when those doubts creep up that I'm right where I should be and so are you. It also helps to remove yourself from social media, at least for a time, if you haven't already. Not everything is as it looks on the outside.

All to say, you've got this. You can get past this. 🙂

That’s most people applying to b-school - we all have different backgrounds with different stories to tell. Some of my b school classmates paid a consultant 2K to do it for them and I was accepted into the same school without one. Goes to show you can level the playing field if you put effort into it

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