I feel like a struggle with “Black and White” thinking where if someone does something that makes me really upset, they became ‘bad’ in my eyes for a while. I.e at work, if we are in a super stressful situation and a coworker is upset or has a annoyed tone with me, I’ll automatically be avoiding or kinda worried to be around that coworker for a while/can’t focus around them properly until they show a diff mood. I also do this in my personal life. Anyone with similar experience/ways to help?

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I am the same. We can’t rewire ourselves to just “get it over it” like people tell us, that is not realistic. Therapists can provide you with productive strategies to minimize the impact, etc. You are already self aware, which is fantastic. Wish you the best, you’ve got this 👍.

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It’s great that you notice that and want to change it up. You can absolutely rewire yourself, kinda reprogram your subconscious mind by noticing the old habit of thinking and creating the new one. We all have this ability, and it’s very empowering to train your mind. Look it up online, there are lots of tools around this. Good luck!

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