I had the weirdest conversation with a parent today. I called out to the mother about her child who has a very mild speaking mistake of replacing the K sound (like in Katie and Connor) with a T sound (so she says Tatie and Tonnor). I told the parent that her child doesn't need full on speech but that I recommended some extra practice at home and a packet her child could fill out for a prize. This woman then proceeded to freak out at me, and when I tried to explain further she hung up on me! 😕

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How old is the student, and is this the first time she has heard that there was something the child had to “ work on” that was different than other children? Is the child receiving services for something else and you were asked to check articulation? Why were you checking the student and calling the parent if they weren’t on an iep( if that’s the case)? Sorry, I’m not trying to be a jerk by asking these questions, just looking for more information so I can understand.

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No worries! Good question. For initial speech screenings I don't need parental consent. Usually a teacher refers their student to me, or the audiologist, counselor, etc. Once it turns into SBA or other intervention then yes I need to speak with the parent and go over it all with them. Most of the time parents are reasonable to work with.

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I just don't understand why she was so defensive. She kept insisting her child spoke fine, and I kept reassuring her that yes, it was mostly fine, just one sound to practice on. Idk why she was so offended. Sometimes parents react badly but I've never experienced anything like this.

I have observed that speech impediments, and the subject of speech corrections in general, are often deeply personal. I work in special ed and with our school SLP's quite a bit. I've seen more than a few students and families offended at the notion that speech therapy might be necessary.
A few years ago an 18 year old girl burst into immediate tears at the mention of speech therapy. I'm talking full on loud ugly-cry tears! I wasn't expecting it. She made it to age 18 still speaking very childishly.

Speech and voice are a part of our personality. It's part of what makes you who you are to other people. So sometimes, a person will connect correcting their speech with changing their personality.
Considering this, exercising as much sensitivity as possible is important. Preface with, "You have a wonderful personality and voice and we don't to change that. We want to help you build the skills to be as successful as possible. Learning to pronounce a few words a little differently (say differently, not better) often helps people to be as successful as they can be."
I know it's a mouthful. I've found that people are a lot more receptive when you're extra sensitive.

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