I just got the time for child to be in for his dental surgery on Monday. We have to be there at 9:45 am and will be there up to four hours max. Plus, the drive will be 44-45 minute drive back and forth. It looks like I’ll be calling out of work. They will put him to sleep in order to get the surgery done. What do you guys think?

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I think I'd take a vacation day and have my son have his dental surgery. What's the alternative?

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Take the day off The entire day. Depending on what’s being done you may need the next day. When my kids had their wisdom teeth out one bounced back like it never happened. The other one let’s say “not so much. “.

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Think about what? Dental surgeries seem to take a while, and then they’ll probably need some help with recovery after. Not sure how else you’d make any time for work.

For sure, better to have just one focus that day and not try to figure out work.

What do we think about what? Either take the day off or work the four hours he's in surgery (bring your laptop with you), and when surgery is over, take the rest of the day off.

I would definitely call out if you can't take the day off. Doesn't even seem like taking a half day would be worth it. I would just take the whole day off and try to enjoy it.

What does this have to do with the work life bowl? Seems pretty straightforward, take a vacation day.

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