I just learned a sister in Christ of my women group is going through a divorce and this triggered me to go into my own emotional spiral. I suddenly have this anxiety and fear of my own relationship. It was like a slap of reality that this can happen to anyone. No one is an exception because we live in a fallen world after all. While I understand that, I can’t shake this fear off. I start to think of all these possible scenarios that may happen to me. How do I navigate out of this mindset?

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